“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Valentine's Day, only second date

Leporello

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Starting seeing a girl at the beggining of the month, she's returning home for this weekend (and boy isn't that encouraging my paranoia) so assuming all goes well I'll be seeing her again the weekend after Valentine's Day. I haven't even seriously kissed her yet; should I buy her a little something? Even mention that it was Valentine's Day?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonGorgon

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Leporello said:
Starting seeing a girl at the beggining of the month, she's returning home for this weekend (and boy isn't that encouraging my paranoia) so assuming all goes well I'll be seeing her again the weekend after Valentine's Day. I haven't even seriously kissed her yet; should I buy her a little something? Even mention that it was Valentine's Day?
NO! but you can ask her what she did.... and listen to the lie...
 

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DonGorgon said:
NO! but you can ask her what she did.... and listen to the lie...
To be fair... on our first date she did talk a great deal about how her older sister was expecting and that it was due any day now, and that is why she's away... but that is not finally the point.
 

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Leporello said:
Starting seeing a girl at the beggining of the month, she's returning home for this weekend (and boy isn't that encouraging my paranoia) so assuming all goes well I'll be seeing her again the weekend after Valentine's Day. I haven't even seriously kissed her yet; should I buy her a little something? Even mention that it was Valentine's Day?
Definitely not. The best gift you can give a woman is to keep her in a state of wonder. No need to give her any gift. Have you asked yourself what I'm getting from her if I give her something now---when I know there is nothing substantial between us. If your response is her saying "thank you. You're so sweet." Then, don't. Wait till she gives you a gift and tell her " oh well, I have a gift for you too... Close your eyes. " Then plant a kiss on her lips. The best Valentine's gift she'd probably have....

-Amoka
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PRMoon

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Valentines day is a farce. You have to believe in yourself and shrug off the societal responsibility of heart day that's forced upon you. If you haven't been dating someone for that long and valentines day happens upon you, be cool and make the other person aware that you haven't been a "couple" for long enough for the world to dictate what should and should not be happening between you two. Strength and confidence aren't givens as a man, they're earned and respected.
 

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If you aren't officially together, don't get her anything.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
If you aren't officially together, don't get her anything.
See ValleyDJ backs my opinion 100% thus it must be true! You have no obligation and should act accordingly!
 
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