Starting seeing a girl at the beggining of the month, she's returning home for this weekend (and boy isn't that encouraging my paranoia) so assuming all goes well I'll be seeing her again the weekend after Valentine's Day. I haven't even seriously kissed her yet; should I buy her a little something? Even mention that it was Valentine's Day?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Valentine's Day, only second date
- Thread starter Leporello
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DonGorgon
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NO! but you can ask her what she did.... and listen to the lie...Leporello said:
To be fair... on our first date she did talk a great deal about how her older sister was expecting and that it was due any day now, and that is why she's away... but that is not finally the point.DonGorgon said:
amoka
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Definitely not. The best gift you can give a woman is to keep her in a state of wonder. No need to give her any gift. Have you asked yourself what I'm getting from her if I give her something now---when I know there is nothing substantial between us. If your response is her saying "thank you. You're so sweet." Then, don't. Wait till she gives you a gift and tell her " oh well, I have a gift for you too... Close your eyes. " Then plant a kiss on her lips. The best Valentine's gift she'd probably have....Leporello said:
-Amoka
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Valentines day is a farce. You have to believe in yourself and shrug off the societal responsibility of heart day that's forced upon you. If you haven't been dating someone for that long and valentines day happens upon you, be cool and make the other person aware that you haven't been a "couple" for long enough for the world to dictate what should and should not be happening between you two. Strength and confidence aren't givens as a man, they're earned and respected.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
If you aren't officially together, don't get her anything.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
See ValleyDJ backs my opinion 100% thus it must be true! You have no obligation and should act accordingly!ValleyDJing said: