"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Valentines day ideas?

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Seeing this girl after work on Sunday night. Been seeing her for a few months, not sure what we should do.

Here's the thing: she never eats around me so I don't want to do dinner, doesn't like going to the movies, ice skating or bowling. I've shot pool with her, hung out at a hookah bar and we've been to a bunch of parties together.

Looking for something new to do. I live in a big city so there is probably something I'm overlooking. She's 19 so bars are out of the question.

Any ideas?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why u focusing on all the stuff she doesn't like.. do the things u like and she can come for the ride.. if she doesn't like it.. tough luck ur the catch not her.
 
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Valentines day break up

I recommend cooking a nice meal with her
edit Sorry about the title, I thought I was making a new thread
 
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SchoolBoy said:
why u focusing on all the stuff she doesn't like.. do the things u like and she can come for the ride.. if she doesn't like it.. tough luck ur the catch not her.
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...really wasn't looking for advice on how to be an alpha male or whatever, I already know all that stuff. I wanted a fresh idea. I'm not focusing on what she doesn't like, just didn't want anyone to suggest that stuff.

background so i don't get anymore replies like schoolboys: I've been seeing 4 other girls besides her. By seeing I mean (usually) going to their house, ****ing them and leaving. shes the one I picked for Sunday because shes my favorite, I actually like spending time with her. I've been seeing her since November and there's not much I can think of that we haven't done.

Does anyone have any actual suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Blank said:
...really wasn't looking for advice on how to be an alpha male or whatever, I already know all that stuff. I wanted a fresh idea. I'm not focusing on what she doesn't like, just didn't want anyone to suggest that stuff.

background so i don't get anymore replies like schoolboys: I've been seeing 4 other girls besides her. By seeing I mean (usually) going to their house, ****ing them and leaving. shes the one I picked for Sunday because shes my favorite, I actually like spending time with her. I've been seeing her since November and there's not much I can think of that we haven't done.

Does anyone have any actual suggestions?
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Ice skating? Going to the grocery store together and picking out some foods to cook together and have a couple glasses of wine.

I dunno, I've been feeling lazy all I'm doing is giving a girl a small cake with "Valid for one BJ" written on it.
 
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is this girl your girlfriend? If so this shouldnt be an issue at this point

you said you've been seeing her for months tho so whats the deal w/ you guys
 
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