"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Valentines day ideas?

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Seeing this girl after work on Sunday night. Been seeing her for a few months, not sure what we should do.

Here's the thing: she never eats around me so I don't want to do dinner, doesn't like going to the movies, ice skating or bowling. I've shot pool with her, hung out at a hookah bar and we've been to a bunch of parties together.

Looking for something new to do. I live in a big city so there is probably something I'm overlooking. She's 19 so bars are out of the question.

Any ideas?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why u focusing on all the stuff she doesn't like.. do the things u like and she can come for the ride.. if she doesn't like it.. tough luck ur the catch not her.
 
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Valentines day break up

I recommend cooking a nice meal with her
edit Sorry about the title, I thought I was making a new thread
 
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SchoolBoy said:
why u focusing on all the stuff she doesn't like.. do the things u like and she can come for the ride.. if she doesn't like it.. tough luck ur the catch not her.
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...really wasn't looking for advice on how to be an alpha male or whatever, I already know all that stuff. I wanted a fresh idea. I'm not focusing on what she doesn't like, just didn't want anyone to suggest that stuff.

background so i don't get anymore replies like schoolboys: I've been seeing 4 other girls besides her. By seeing I mean (usually) going to their house, ****ing them and leaving. shes the one I picked for Sunday because shes my favorite, I actually like spending time with her. I've been seeing her since November and there's not much I can think of that we haven't done.

Does anyone have any actual suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Blank said:
...really wasn't looking for advice on how to be an alpha male or whatever, I already know all that stuff. I wanted a fresh idea. I'm not focusing on what she doesn't like, just didn't want anyone to suggest that stuff.

background so i don't get anymore replies like schoolboys: I've been seeing 4 other girls besides her. By seeing I mean (usually) going to their house, ****ing them and leaving. shes the one I picked for Sunday because shes my favorite, I actually like spending time with her. I've been seeing her since November and there's not much I can think of that we haven't done.

Does anyone have any actual suggestions?
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Ice skating? Going to the grocery store together and picking out some foods to cook together and have a couple glasses of wine.

I dunno, I've been feeling lazy all I'm doing is giving a girl a small cake with "Valid for one BJ" written on it.
 
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is this girl your girlfriend? If so this shouldnt be an issue at this point

you said you've been seeing her for months tho so whats the deal w/ you guys
 
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