"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Valentines day ideas?

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Seeing this girl after work on Sunday night. Been seeing her for a few months, not sure what we should do.

Here's the thing: she never eats around me so I don't want to do dinner, doesn't like going to the movies, ice skating or bowling. I've shot pool with her, hung out at a hookah bar and we've been to a bunch of parties together.

Looking for something new to do. I live in a big city so there is probably something I'm overlooking. She's 19 so bars are out of the question.

Any ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why u focusing on all the stuff she doesn't like.. do the things u like and she can come for the ride.. if she doesn't like it.. tough luck ur the catch not her.
 
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Valentines day break up

I recommend cooking a nice meal with her
edit Sorry about the title, I thought I was making a new thread
 
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SchoolBoy said:
why u focusing on all the stuff she doesn't like.. do the things u like and she can come for the ride.. if she doesn't like it.. tough luck ur the catch not her.
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...really wasn't looking for advice on how to be an alpha male or whatever, I already know all that stuff. I wanted a fresh idea. I'm not focusing on what she doesn't like, just didn't want anyone to suggest that stuff.

background so i don't get anymore replies like schoolboys: I've been seeing 4 other girls besides her. By seeing I mean (usually) going to their house, ****ing them and leaving. shes the one I picked for Sunday because shes my favorite, I actually like spending time with her. I've been seeing her since November and there's not much I can think of that we haven't done.

Does anyone have any actual suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Blank said:
...really wasn't looking for advice on how to be an alpha male or whatever, I already know all that stuff. I wanted a fresh idea. I'm not focusing on what she doesn't like, just didn't want anyone to suggest that stuff.

background so i don't get anymore replies like schoolboys: I've been seeing 4 other girls besides her. By seeing I mean (usually) going to their house, ****ing them and leaving. shes the one I picked for Sunday because shes my favorite, I actually like spending time with her. I've been seeing her since November and there's not much I can think of that we haven't done.

Does anyone have any actual suggestions?
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Ice skating? Going to the grocery store together and picking out some foods to cook together and have a couple glasses of wine.

I dunno, I've been feeling lazy all I'm doing is giving a girl a small cake with "Valid for one BJ" written on it.
 
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is this girl your girlfriend? If so this shouldnt be an issue at this point

you said you've been seeing her for months tho so whats the deal w/ you guys
 
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