When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If someone says it's all the same they are dead wrong. I've never experienced anything I would call "loose" and I sort of think that is a myth honestly but there are huge variations in depth, amount of wetness and consistency of wetness.C-quenced said:This may be a little off topic but I'm kinda curious.
When it comes down to sex does all ***** feel the same or does the experience totally change with different women?
Damnit Speakeasy! That's the second time you got me with that link..:woo:speakeasy said:An ugly vagina...well this is hard to beat: http://www.thiswillturnyougay.com/
Loose vaginas are real and quite nasty. You pretty much cant feel sh*t. The amazing wetness and tightness...gone...no bueno.bigjohnson said:If someone says it's all the same they are dead wrong. I've never experienced anything I would call "loose" and I sort of think that is a myth honestly .
I wouldn't suggest that at all. I once did that. After stroking for awhile, I was like "damn, this is feeling good." Before I bust, I always make a habit of reaching down to make sure it's still on. Well, the condom came off and was deep inside her. No wonder it felt so good, I wasn't wearing anything! The lube inside the rubber made it slip off, and I've never had a condom slip off before until I put lube inside it.bigjohnson said:On topic, if you use a condom try a little Astroglide INSIDE next time.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
speakeasy said:I wouldn't suggest that at all. I once did that. After stroking for awhile .... the condom came off
True, what's the next size beneath Magnum?bigjohnson said:Well you have to use a rubber that fits. Get a smaller rubber dude.
LOL - Ya same as I use, funny enough. Reason I started using lube inside is because those Magnums feel like they're made from damn used bicycle inner-tubes.speakeasy said:True, what's the next size beneath Magnum?![]()
Well ... can't be very common. I have been with a few that were so wet and the sauce was so gooey/slippery that it was hard to feel friction, but there was a lot of pressure and suction still. Those things can pop out a baby and snap back into shape, so not sure what it takes to get "loose".theunflushables said:There is such a thing as a loose pvssy. I fvcked one once it was like fvcking a glass of warm water.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I was just joking about the Magnum thing. I'm only average size. My fav condom is the Okimoto Crowns. Before that I was using Durex Ultra Thin which were pretty good too.bigjohnson said:LOL - Ya same as I use, funny enough. Reason I started using lube inside is because those Magnums feel like they're made from damn used bicycle inner-tubes.
You ever try the new(ish) XL or thins or other variations?
Maybe the thinner material is more prone to bunching up? I seriously never have the issue you are talking about and I use lube if at all possible. Maybe the Mag thins (whatever they call them, I forget) would be good enough to not use the lube with.speakeasy said:I was just joking about the Magnum thing. .... My fav condom is the Okimoto Crowns. Before that I was using Durex Ultra Thin ...
What a waste. No inner lips at all. How do you play with the inner lips in those cases ? It's great to excite them...speakeasy said:These are perfect poons:
http://www.hogrockcafe.com/Vagina%20Monologues%20Picture%2052.jpg
http://www.hogrockcafe.com/Vagina Monologues Picture 55.jpg
Nice plump lips and no dangling meat. Could eat that for days.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It took me YEARS to figure out this trick. They should teach it in senior year of high school....seriously.....it would make guys more likely to use them.bigjohnson said:On topic, if you use a condom try a little Astroglide INSIDE next time.
How I figured it out was from the fact they sell lubricated onesSTR8UP said:It took me YEARS to figure out this trick. They should teach it in senior year of high school....seriously.....it would make guys more likely to use them.
You know what works just as good though? Put your pecker in her face and tell her, no COMMAND her to get it nice and wet for you, I mean REALLY wet, right before you slip on the jimmy hat.
I hate condoms but if you gotta wear one this is the only way to do it.
And I've never had one slip off from it either. Broken plenty of the thin ones, but never had one slip.
I definitely agree that a lot of them look good and it's actually the best part of a woman lol.Oh yea, and I LOVE the way a pu$$y looks. Sure, some are more beautiful than others, but I can't say that I've really seen an ugly one. I really pretty specimen I could admire for hours.....
Fine, then here's your dreamgirl: http://www.pornweavers.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/327205817.jpgMoveYourAss... said:What a waste. No inner lips at all. How do you play with the inner lips in those cases ? It's great to excite them...
Not my type.
Basially, each one has his preferencess, and there are enough of every kind fof everyone...
So how do you lube the inside? Do you put a couple drops in the reservoir at the tip?STR8UP said:It took me YEARS to figure out this trick. They should teach it in senior year of high school....seriously.....it would make guys more likely to use them.
You know what works just as good though? Put your pecker in her face and tell her, no COMMAND her to get it nice and wet for you, I mean REALLY wet, right before you slip on the jimmy hat.
I hate condoms but if you gotta wear one this is the only way to do it.
And I've never had one slip off from it either. Broken plenty of the thin ones, but never had one slip.
Oh yea, and I LOVE the way a pu$$y looks. Sure, some are more beautiful than others, but I can't say that I've really seen an ugly one. I really pretty specimen I could admire for hours.....
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.