Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If you think this is hostility you have no idea what this forum is really about. Sit back, grab a drink, open your mind, you may learn something.DoctorLW said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Using alcohol to help your game
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Probably not the drinking itself, but the behaviour. Just try it and see for yourself. If you're sober around people who had as little as 5 beers you'd act 600% less direct, 'silly' and less 'blunt'.DoctorLW said:I'll tell you I know lots of girls who find men who can't (or choose not to) drink as HUGE turnoffs.
+10000000Get off your high horses and realize just because your game sucks when your drunk doesn't mean you have to be bitter and get angry with those who have more success with it. I mean what other possible reason could explain all the hostility on this board?
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
The best part is when it switches over from drinkin alcohol to pick up chics to drinkin alcohol because you like the taste of booze and f*ck what anybody else thinks!
Yeeeah! That's how I roll!
Yeeeah! That's how I roll!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A master don juan is silky smooth at all times. I am no master don juan, so the alcohol helps calm the nerves when I make an approach on a random at a club. However, getting drunk and doing stupid things, like slurring your speech and stumbling, is an entirely different story.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I've partied in Providence. I'd make the drive up to Boston.DJVladdy said:Tomorrow I'm going to a club in Providence, RI totally sober... I'll let ya'll know how that goes.
P.S. If any1 gonna be in Providence clubs tomorrow, let me know.