Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Using alcohol to help your game

Francisco d'Anconia

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DoctorLW said:
.. I mean what other possible reason could explain all the hostility on this board?
If you think this is hostility you have no idea what this forum is really about. Sit back, grab a drink, open your mind, you may learn something.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DoctorLW said:
I'll tell you I know lots of girls who find men who can't (or choose not to) drink as HUGE turnoffs.
Probably not the drinking itself, but the behaviour. Just try it and see for yourself. If you're sober around people who had as little as 5 beers you'd act 600% less direct, 'silly' and less 'blunt'.

Get off your high horses and realize just because your game sucks when your drunk doesn't mean you have to be bitter and get angry with those who have more success with it. I mean what other possible reason could explain all the hostility on this board?
+10000000
 

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How did this turn into "don't drink". It's not about that. Drinking is fun. But it should enhance the good mood you're already in. Seems pretty straightforward.
 

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The best part is when it switches over from drinkin alcohol to pick up chics to drinkin alcohol because you like the taste of booze and f*ck what anybody else thinks!

Yeeeah! That's how I roll!
 

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Tomorrow I'm going to a club in Providence, RI totally sober... I'll let ya'll know how that goes.

P.S. If any1 gonna be in Providence clubs tomorrow, let me know.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A master don juan is silky smooth at all times. I am no master don juan, so the alcohol helps calm the nerves when I make an approach on a random at a club. However, getting drunk and doing stupid things, like slurring your speech and stumbling, is an entirely different story.
 

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DJVladdy said:
Tomorrow I'm going to a club in Providence, RI totally sober... I'll let ya'll know how that goes.

P.S. If any1 gonna be in Providence clubs tomorrow, let me know.
I've partied in Providence. I'd make the drive up to Boston.
 
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