"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Using alcohol to help your game

Francisco d'Anconia

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DoctorLW said:
.. I mean what other possible reason could explain all the hostility on this board?
If you think this is hostility you have no idea what this forum is really about. Sit back, grab a drink, open your mind, you may learn something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DoctorLW said:
I'll tell you I know lots of girls who find men who can't (or choose not to) drink as HUGE turnoffs.
Probably not the drinking itself, but the behaviour. Just try it and see for yourself. If you're sober around people who had as little as 5 beers you'd act 600% less direct, 'silly' and less 'blunt'.

Get off your high horses and realize just because your game sucks when your drunk doesn't mean you have to be bitter and get angry with those who have more success with it. I mean what other possible reason could explain all the hostility on this board?
+10000000
 

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How did this turn into "don't drink". It's not about that. Drinking is fun. But it should enhance the good mood you're already in. Seems pretty straightforward.
 

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The best part is when it switches over from drinkin alcohol to pick up chics to drinkin alcohol because you like the taste of booze and f*ck what anybody else thinks!

Yeeeah! That's how I roll!
 

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Tomorrow I'm going to a club in Providence, RI totally sober... I'll let ya'll know how that goes.

P.S. If any1 gonna be in Providence clubs tomorrow, let me know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A master don juan is silky smooth at all times. I am no master don juan, so the alcohol helps calm the nerves when I make an approach on a random at a club. However, getting drunk and doing stupid things, like slurring your speech and stumbling, is an entirely different story.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJVladdy said:
Tomorrow I'm going to a club in Providence, RI totally sober... I'll let ya'll know how that goes.

P.S. If any1 gonna be in Providence clubs tomorrow, let me know.
I've partied in Providence. I'd make the drive up to Boston.
 
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