That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Because chloroform leaves women more conscious than when they're tapping away on their cell phone! :cheer:Iceberg said:Why not just use a bottle of chloroform?
Well, you should know that cell phone jammer are illegal in many countries, states. Cell phone jammers are not allowed for private use.Rubato said:Hey guys, I was talking to my uncle last night and he's a pretty eccentric dude. He's a conspiracy theorist/tech junkie guy, and he was telling me he just got a portable that allegedly jams all 2g/3g/4g/ CDMA and GSM cell transmission within 100 yards. At first I didn't see why there would be any utility to own something like that, unless you want to commit a crime.
But.
I started to think. Cell phones, I think, are one of the biggest things that have ruined night game. Girls show up somewhere, get out their phones, and either text all their friends where they are so they can join her, or just text. Text, text, text, text. I'm thinking about borrowing it this weekend and seeing what results I notice. Do you guys think that passively disabling every girl's cell phones in a given bar or club would make game any easier?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The girl would be so focussed on why her cellphone isn't working rather than talking to you.Rubato said:Hey guys, I was talking to my uncle last night and he's a pretty eccentric dude. He's a conspiracy theorist/tech junkie guy, and he was telling me he just got a portable cell phone jammer that allegedly jams all 2g/3g/4g/ CDMA and GSM cell transmission within 100 yards. At first I didn't see why there would be any utility to own something like that, unless you want to commit a crime.
But.
I started to think. Cell phones, I think, are one of the biggest things that have ruined night game. Girls show up somewhere, get out their phones, and either text all their friends where they are so they can join her, or just text. Text, text, text, text. I'm thinking about borrowing it this weekend and seeing what results I notice. Do you guys think that passively disabling every girl's cell phones in a given bar or club would make game any easier?
Phone jammer is an interesting and helpful device when we don’t want to be bothered by the cell phone noise. I just bought myself a phone jammer the other day, it is working great and BTW, it’s legal here in my country.Rubato said:Hey guys, I was talking to my uncle last night and he's a pretty eccentric dude. He's a conspiracy theorist/tech junkie guy, and he was telling me he just got a portable cell phone jammer that allegedly jams all 2g/3g/4g/ CDMA and GSM cell transmission within 100 yards. At first I didn't see why there would be any utility to own something like that, unless you want to commit a crime.
But.
I started to think. Cell phones, I think, are one of the biggest things that have ruined night game. Girls show up somewhere, get out their phones, and either text all their friends where they are so they can join her, or just text. Text, text, text, text. I'm thinking about borrowing it this weekend and seeing what results I notice. Do you guys think that passively disabling every girl's cell phones in a given bar or club would make game any easier?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.