She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Because chloroform leaves women more conscious than when they're tapping away on their cell phone! :cheer:Iceberg said:Why not just use a bottle of chloroform?
Well, you should know that cell phone jammer are illegal in many countries, states. Cell phone jammers are not allowed for private use.Rubato said:Hey guys, I was talking to my uncle last night and he's a pretty eccentric dude. He's a conspiracy theorist/tech junkie guy, and he was telling me he just got a portable that allegedly jams all 2g/3g/4g/ CDMA and GSM cell transmission within 100 yards. At first I didn't see why there would be any utility to own something like that, unless you want to commit a crime.
But.
I started to think. Cell phones, I think, are one of the biggest things that have ruined night game. Girls show up somewhere, get out their phones, and either text all their friends where they are so they can join her, or just text. Text, text, text, text. I'm thinking about borrowing it this weekend and seeing what results I notice. Do you guys think that passively disabling every girl's cell phones in a given bar or club would make game any easier?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The girl would be so focussed on why her cellphone isn't working rather than talking to you.Rubato said:Hey guys, I was talking to my uncle last night and he's a pretty eccentric dude. He's a conspiracy theorist/tech junkie guy, and he was telling me he just got a portable cell phone jammer that allegedly jams all 2g/3g/4g/ CDMA and GSM cell transmission within 100 yards. At first I didn't see why there would be any utility to own something like that, unless you want to commit a crime.
But.
I started to think. Cell phones, I think, are one of the biggest things that have ruined night game. Girls show up somewhere, get out their phones, and either text all their friends where they are so they can join her, or just text. Text, text, text, text. I'm thinking about borrowing it this weekend and seeing what results I notice. Do you guys think that passively disabling every girl's cell phones in a given bar or club would make game any easier?
Phone jammer is an interesting and helpful device when we don’t want to be bothered by the cell phone noise. I just bought myself a phone jammer the other day, it is working great and BTW, it’s legal here in my country.Rubato said:Hey guys, I was talking to my uncle last night and he's a pretty eccentric dude. He's a conspiracy theorist/tech junkie guy, and he was telling me he just got a portable cell phone jammer that allegedly jams all 2g/3g/4g/ CDMA and GSM cell transmission within 100 yards. At first I didn't see why there would be any utility to own something like that, unless you want to commit a crime.
But.
I started to think. Cell phones, I think, are one of the biggest things that have ruined night game. Girls show up somewhere, get out their phones, and either text all their friends where they are so they can join her, or just text. Text, text, text, text. I'm thinking about borrowing it this weekend and seeing what results I notice. Do you guys think that passively disabling every girl's cell phones in a given bar or club would make game any easier?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.