She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Because chloroform leaves women more conscious than when they're tapping away on their cell phone! :cheer:Iceberg said:Why not just use a bottle of chloroform?
Well, you should know that cell phone jammer are illegal in many countries, states. Cell phone jammers are not allowed for private use.Rubato said:Hey guys, I was talking to my uncle last night and he's a pretty eccentric dude. He's a conspiracy theorist/tech junkie guy, and he was telling me he just got a portable that allegedly jams all 2g/3g/4g/ CDMA and GSM cell transmission within 100 yards. At first I didn't see why there would be any utility to own something like that, unless you want to commit a crime.
But.
I started to think. Cell phones, I think, are one of the biggest things that have ruined night game. Girls show up somewhere, get out their phones, and either text all their friends where they are so they can join her, or just text. Text, text, text, text. I'm thinking about borrowing it this weekend and seeing what results I notice. Do you guys think that passively disabling every girl's cell phones in a given bar or club would make game any easier?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The girl would be so focussed on why her cellphone isn't working rather than talking to you.Rubato said:Hey guys, I was talking to my uncle last night and he's a pretty eccentric dude. He's a conspiracy theorist/tech junkie guy, and he was telling me he just got a portable cell phone jammer that allegedly jams all 2g/3g/4g/ CDMA and GSM cell transmission within 100 yards. At first I didn't see why there would be any utility to own something like that, unless you want to commit a crime.
But.
I started to think. Cell phones, I think, are one of the biggest things that have ruined night game. Girls show up somewhere, get out their phones, and either text all their friends where they are so they can join her, or just text. Text, text, text, text. I'm thinking about borrowing it this weekend and seeing what results I notice. Do you guys think that passively disabling every girl's cell phones in a given bar or club would make game any easier?
Phone jammer is an interesting and helpful device when we don’t want to be bothered by the cell phone noise. I just bought myself a phone jammer the other day, it is working great and BTW, it’s legal here in my country.Rubato said:Hey guys, I was talking to my uncle last night and he's a pretty eccentric dude. He's a conspiracy theorist/tech junkie guy, and he was telling me he just got a portable cell phone jammer that allegedly jams all 2g/3g/4g/ CDMA and GSM cell transmission within 100 yards. At first I didn't see why there would be any utility to own something like that, unless you want to commit a crime.
But.
I started to think. Cell phones, I think, are one of the biggest things that have ruined night game. Girls show up somewhere, get out their phones, and either text all their friends where they are so they can join her, or just text. Text, text, text, text. I'm thinking about borrowing it this weekend and seeing what results I notice. Do you guys think that passively disabling every girl's cell phones in a given bar or club would make game any easier?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.