That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
interesting you should bring up the subject asking if anyone would kill such an innocent thing like a puppy...ThunderMaverick said:Some are claiming that the dog was already dead, but it looked pretty freakin' real to me.
Would anyone here ever kill a puppy? Do you know what has to go through your mind as you purposely and with a smile on your face KILL a little innocent animal? That's the problem. If they can do that to an innocent puppy how do you think they treat humans?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ken785 "Now what if i told you that when that baby grows up said:the only problem with this is that you will never ever face this situation because no one can predict the future.
baby and puppy killers are the sickest of the sick because they are cowards that take their rage out on defenseless creatures.
Ken785 said:"Would you ever kill a newborn baby? What if you had it in your arms...would you wrench its neck till it died??"
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"Now what if i told you that when that baby grows up, he or she would become the most destructive terrorist on the plant and murder hundreds of thousands of innocent men,women, and children?"
What do you think now??
Puppies become instinctivly docile when picked up like this. His legs are not relaxed - he looks OK to me.wjh said:Well, the dog certainly looks dead. And it had no movement. I can't discern whether or not that yelping was real, though.
That's total impossible to say. Why ask a question like that? None of us are psychic and can see a baby, who has a pure clean slate's future.Ken785 said:interesting you should bring up the subject asking if anyone would kill such an innocent thing like a puppy...
In my karate class, my instructor said something i probably wont forget...he was talking something about discipline and asked the class this...
"Would you ever kill a newborn baby? What if you had it in your arms...would you wrench its neck till it died??"
ill...give you a moment to think about that....
I know most of you are going to think thats crazy right? and who in their right mind who even think anything like that?!?....now listen to this...
"Now what if i told you that when that baby grows up, he or she would become the most destructive terrorist on the plant and murder hundreds of thousands of innocent men,women, and children?"
What do you think now??
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
joekerr31 said:i didn't watch the video, because the notion of someone doing this is disgusting.
if i were present when someone did this i'd not only punch him in the face, but would probably keep punching him in the face until someone pulled me off him or i started to feel his brains squishing between my fingers.
unnecessary cruelty to animals is worse than cruelty to humans in my opinion. those who have the urge to commit cruel acts usually do so because of an abusive past themselves - hence someone who was abused by a human i could see having a psychological disposition towards abusing humans in return.
but to abuse animals is way more f*cked up because theres no psychological reason for it other than blind cruelty for cruelties sake.
these guys are often DEEPLY disturbed and are chicken sh*t cowards who know if they attack humans they will get in trouble, so instead they attack animals. moreover, make no mistake about it, what they are doing to the animal they would LOVE to do to humans but they know the stakes are higher so they don't.
poeple who exihibit this form of psychopathy should be put down in my opinion. and yes, there are folks who will say 'we kill chickens, whats the difference.' the difference is that
1) we kill chickens out of necessity (for food).
2) even though we kill them, we expect chicken farmers to inflict the minimal amount of pain on them possible until such time as they die. if a chicken farm were to be caught setting chickens on fire for the fun of it, i can guarantee you 90% of consumers out there would be enraged and would refuse to buy that product.
anyway, while i haven't seen the video, i do think the poster should be ashamed of themselves for propogating it in this forum. he could have easily talked about the video without providing a link to it.
I'm sorry, but thats just downright stupid... If someone killed a child, raped a woman (or a man) and then killed them in cold blood, it honestly wouldn't bother you as much as if someone killed a ****ing dog?!iqqi said:Nothing sickens me more than animal cruelty, not human on human cruelty, not even murder.
I know. I've always thought I was weird for that.Aboleo said:I'm sorry, but thats just downright stupid... If someone killed a child, raped a woman (or a man) and then killed them in cold blood, it honestly wouldn't bother you as much as if someone killed a ****ing dog?!
Get your freakin' head examined, girl.:crazy:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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