"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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US/Canada face massive bridge infrastructure costs after new technology shows massive structural issues

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US/Canada have the worst bridges in the world in terms of the condition they are in, followed by Africa.

Let that sink in for a second. Africa has better bridges than the US and Canada do.

In recent times, advanced satellites using radar imaging are giving scientists a powerful new way to watch over the world’s bridges.

A type of radar called Synthetic Aperture Radar can reveal structural displacements as small as a few millimetres and signal early structural problems long before inspectors notice them, say researchers from the University of Houston.

Now, a global analysis of 744 bridges reveals that bridges in North America, which were mostly built in the 1960s, are in the poorest condition, followed by those in Africa.


 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I....need..to...stfu....wraaaah....

I'll shut my mouth and continue sleeping. Sayonara
 

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It won't be OVER for CivilEngineeringCels. :)
 

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i'm not surprised, the US has some of the shvttiest infrastructure in the world
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wonder if how solid this analysis is... Are we going to be reading a story a few days from now indicating that this subject is a wee bit more complex("SOME bridges in North America are in 3rd World shape") than what's being presented here?
 

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Bridge infrastructure has been a huge issue here in the US for decades at this point. It doesn't surprise me and there's no mandate or interest to ever try and address it. Kick it down the road until it falls down.
 

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Bridge infrastructure has been a huge issue here in the US for decades at this point. It doesn't surprise me and there's no mandate or interest to ever try and address it. Kick it down the road until it falls down.
Easier to create 15 minute cities if the bridges don't work.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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US/Canada have the worst bridges in the world in terms of the condition they are in, followed by Africa.

Let that sink in for a second. Africa has better bridges than the US and Canada do.

In recent times, advanced satellites using radar imaging are giving scientists a powerful new way to watch over the world’s bridges.

A type of radar called Synthetic Aperture Radar can reveal structural displacements as small as a few millimetres and signal early structural problems long before inspectors notice them, say researchers from the University of Houston.

Now, a global analysis of 744 bridges reveals that bridges in North America, which were mostly built in the 1960s, are in the poorest condition, followed by those in Africa.


The empowered women can maintain the bridges now. Where is feminism when you need it?
 

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disagree. women love engineers. other men don't always like engineers.....
I've dated multiple women who have complained about their social skills. They have a rep for being on the spectrum, although as with anything exceptions exist.
 

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I've dated multiple women who have complained about their social skills. They have a rep for being on the spectrum, although as with anything exceptions exist.
i have to tell you. there are some guys in the spectrum that women love. women forgive social skills if they are interested. many guys in the spectrum have allot of things going for them; except that one thing... that cute awkward thing works when she is interested. the key for the spectrum guys is to NOTICE she is interested. and your right also, some women prefer a different type. plenty to go around for all.
 
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