"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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US/Canada face massive bridge infrastructure costs after new technology shows massive structural issues

BackInTheGame78

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US/Canada have the worst bridges in the world in terms of the condition they are in, followed by Africa.

Let that sink in for a second. Africa has better bridges than the US and Canada do.

In recent times, advanced satellites using radar imaging are giving scientists a powerful new way to watch over the world’s bridges.

A type of radar called Synthetic Aperture Radar can reveal structural displacements as small as a few millimetres and signal early structural problems long before inspectors notice them, say researchers from the University of Houston.

Now, a global analysis of 744 bridges reveals that bridges in North America, which were mostly built in the 1960s, are in the poorest condition, followed by those in Africa.


 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I....need..to...stfu....wraaaah....

I'll shut my mouth and continue sleeping. Sayonara
 

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It won't be OVER for CivilEngineeringCels. :)
 

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i'm not surprised, the US has some of the shvttiest infrastructure in the world
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wonder if how solid this analysis is... Are we going to be reading a story a few days from now indicating that this subject is a wee bit more complex("SOME bridges in North America are in 3rd World shape") than what's being presented here?
 

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Bridge infrastructure has been a huge issue here in the US for decades at this point. It doesn't surprise me and there's no mandate or interest to ever try and address it. Kick it down the road until it falls down.
 

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Bridge infrastructure has been a huge issue here in the US for decades at this point. It doesn't surprise me and there's no mandate or interest to ever try and address it. Kick it down the road until it falls down.
Easier to create 15 minute cities if the bridges don't work.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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US/Canada have the worst bridges in the world in terms of the condition they are in, followed by Africa.

Let that sink in for a second. Africa has better bridges than the US and Canada do.

In recent times, advanced satellites using radar imaging are giving scientists a powerful new way to watch over the world’s bridges.

A type of radar called Synthetic Aperture Radar can reveal structural displacements as small as a few millimetres and signal early structural problems long before inspectors notice them, say researchers from the University of Houston.

Now, a global analysis of 744 bridges reveals that bridges in North America, which were mostly built in the 1960s, are in the poorest condition, followed by those in Africa.


The empowered women can maintain the bridges now. Where is feminism when you need it?
 

BillyPilgrim

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disagree. women love engineers. other men don't always like engineers.....
I've dated multiple women who have complained about their social skills. They have a rep for being on the spectrum, although as with anything exceptions exist.
 

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I've dated multiple women who have complained about their social skills. They have a rep for being on the spectrum, although as with anything exceptions exist.
i have to tell you. there are some guys in the spectrum that women love. women forgive social skills if they are interested. many guys in the spectrum have allot of things going for them; except that one thing... that cute awkward thing works when she is interested. the key for the spectrum guys is to NOTICE she is interested. and your right also, some women prefer a different type. plenty to go around for all.
 
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