mellowmood23
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Im not sure I understand your question.Maximus Rex said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
URGENT: I asked for a date, she invited me to a party
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mellowmood23
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Guys, the girl asked me to update her regarding the gym, and I said I will. My question is, would it be rude if I dont, or do I have to since I said I would?
If I have to do it, which is better, to call her or just send her a text message? Tonight, or tomorrow or when is best?
If I have to do it, which is better, to call her or just send her a text message? Tonight, or tomorrow or when is best?
xectxny19x
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I'd prefer updating her about the gym on your one-on-one session.
mellowmood23
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Actually I sent her a brief text around 10pm telling her that the gym was fine and I had a rough workout and the price is good. I woke up this morning and found that she had called me at 1 am!!!! Of coarse I was asleep and didnt pick up the phone. 1 am!!!
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Fuggit. Go have a good time. Like you would at any party. Just don't stay up her ass all night like she was your mom at your 3rd birthday party...get out there and mingle. 
Parties aren't dates, so don't expect anything. She may even end up hooking up with someone else. But that's OK, because you get a chance to expand your social circle and work on your social skills. Maybe even find NEW girls to mess around with. Parties are opportunities, man. Not trials.
Parties aren't dates, so don't expect anything. She may even end up hooking up with someone else. But that's OK, because you get a chance to expand your social circle and work on your social skills. Maybe even find NEW girls to mess around with. Parties are opportunities, man. Not trials.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mellowmood23
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Man, the party was last weekendsquirrels said:Fuggit. Go have a good time. Like you would at any party. Just don't stay up her ass all night like she was your mom at your 3rd birthday party...get out there and mingle.
Parties aren't dates, so don't expect anything. She may even end up hooking up with someone else. But that's OK, because you get a chance to expand your social circle and work on your social skills. Maybe even find NEW girls to mess around with. Parties are opportunities, man. Not trials.
Maximus Rex
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Why did you ask about her having a boyfriend? By you asking about her having a boyfriend, your giving her an "out." If she did have a boyfriend, she would've clearly volunteered that information on her on. I figured by you asking the question, you had a definite reason as to why you asked it.mellowmood23 said: