mellowmood23
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Im not sure I understand your question.Maximus Rex said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
URGENT: I asked for a date, she invited me to a party
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mellowmood23
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Guys, the girl asked me to update her regarding the gym, and I said I will. My question is, would it be rude if I dont, or do I have to since I said I would?
If I have to do it, which is better, to call her or just send her a text message? Tonight, or tomorrow or when is best?
If I have to do it, which is better, to call her or just send her a text message? Tonight, or tomorrow or when is best?
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I'd prefer updating her about the gym on your one-on-one session.
mellowmood23
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Actually I sent her a brief text around 10pm telling her that the gym was fine and I had a rough workout and the price is good. I woke up this morning and found that she had called me at 1 am!!!! Of coarse I was asleep and didnt pick up the phone. 1 am!!!
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Fuggit. Go have a good time. Like you would at any party. Just don't stay up her ass all night like she was your mom at your 3rd birthday party...get out there and mingle. 
Parties aren't dates, so don't expect anything. She may even end up hooking up with someone else. But that's OK, because you get a chance to expand your social circle and work on your social skills. Maybe even find NEW girls to mess around with. Parties are opportunities, man. Not trials.
Parties aren't dates, so don't expect anything. She may even end up hooking up with someone else. But that's OK, because you get a chance to expand your social circle and work on your social skills. Maybe even find NEW girls to mess around with. Parties are opportunities, man. Not trials.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mellowmood23
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Man, the party was last weekendsquirrels said:Fuggit. Go have a good time. Like you would at any party. Just don't stay up her ass all night like she was your mom at your 3rd birthday party...get out there and mingle.
Parties aren't dates, so don't expect anything. She may even end up hooking up with someone else. But that's OK, because you get a chance to expand your social circle and work on your social skills. Maybe even find NEW girls to mess around with. Parties are opportunities, man. Not trials.
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Why did you ask about her having a boyfriend? By you asking about her having a boyfriend, your giving her an "out." If she did have a boyfriend, she would've clearly volunteered that information on her on. I figured by you asking the question, you had a definite reason as to why you asked it.mellowmood23 said: