mellowmood23
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Im not sure I understand your question.Maximus Rex said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
URGENT: I asked for a date, she invited me to a party
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mellowmood23
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Guys, the girl asked me to update her regarding the gym, and I said I will. My question is, would it be rude if I dont, or do I have to since I said I would?
If I have to do it, which is better, to call her or just send her a text message? Tonight, or tomorrow or when is best?
If I have to do it, which is better, to call her or just send her a text message? Tonight, or tomorrow or when is best?
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I'd prefer updating her about the gym on your one-on-one session.
mellowmood23
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Actually I sent her a brief text around 10pm telling her that the gym was fine and I had a rough workout and the price is good. I woke up this morning and found that she had called me at 1 am!!!! Of coarse I was asleep and didnt pick up the phone. 1 am!!!
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Fuggit. Go have a good time. Like you would at any party. Just don't stay up her ass all night like she was your mom at your 3rd birthday party...get out there and mingle. 
Parties aren't dates, so don't expect anything. She may even end up hooking up with someone else. But that's OK, because you get a chance to expand your social circle and work on your social skills. Maybe even find NEW girls to mess around with. Parties are opportunities, man. Not trials.
Parties aren't dates, so don't expect anything. She may even end up hooking up with someone else. But that's OK, because you get a chance to expand your social circle and work on your social skills. Maybe even find NEW girls to mess around with. Parties are opportunities, man. Not trials.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mellowmood23
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Man, the party was last weekendsquirrels said:Fuggit. Go have a good time. Like you would at any party. Just don't stay up her ass all night like she was your mom at your 3rd birthday party...get out there and mingle.
Parties aren't dates, so don't expect anything. She may even end up hooking up with someone else. But that's OK, because you get a chance to expand your social circle and work on your social skills. Maybe even find NEW girls to mess around with. Parties are opportunities, man. Not trials.
Maximus Rex
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Why did you ask about her having a boyfriend? By you asking about her having a boyfriend, your giving her an "out." If she did have a boyfriend, she would've clearly volunteered that information on her on. I figured by you asking the question, you had a definite reason as to why you asked it.mellowmood23 said: