"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Urgent: Dilemma should I go for it?
- Thread starter Konada
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Just be cool with her an tell her hit u up at 18
dont be messing with underage chicks bro. ive had dates with 18 year olds an Im like let me see that ID...i dont even agree to meet unless they are willing to prove age upon meeting.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Building_and_Loan
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If you're above 17, I'm going with no.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
She had better have a real ID with her, too. If she doesn't, she's lying about being 16.
The question is, if she lies to you about her age shows you fake ID are you still accountable?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yes, absolutely. You had better be good at scrutinizing that ID.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So if a 15 year old girl has a professionally made fake ID and birth certificate showing she's 16... you're going to jail?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Seems to directly conflict with common sense: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common_sense
dustmuffin
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