"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Urgent: Dilemma should I go for it?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Just be cool with her an tell her hit u up at 18
dont be messing with underage chicks bro. ive had dates with 18 year olds an Im like let me see that ID...i dont even agree to meet unless they are willing to prove age upon meeting.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Building_and_Loan
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If you're above 17, I'm going with no.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
She had better have a real ID with her, too. If she doesn't, she's lying about being 16.
The question is, if she lies to you about her age shows you fake ID are you still accountable?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yes, absolutely. You had better be good at scrutinizing that ID.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So if a 15 year old girl has a professionally made fake ID and birth certificate showing she's 16... you're going to jail?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Seems to directly conflict with common sense: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common_sense
dustmuffin
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