Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Oh, I'm sure you are waiting. You're wanting answers from me like the CIA. I've already explained it to you. I've told you that I have copied and pasted excerpts to different people in the past on here because not everybody was fond with my story. You certainly are, though. If you don't believe me, feel free to move along.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude, you barely write in English. I've come on here for a year or more (however long it's been) venting about my insecurities about my relationship. And so far, plenty of you have said for a LONG time now that she's going to leave me and she hasn't done so yet...
Make it easy for everyone, prove that you're not a troll, and post the dates and the actual content of the post that prove that I am incorrect
I don't even know what you're asking, and I am NOT going back and posting dates of whatever you're asking. Really? I've dodged nothing and have answered your question repeatedly. If you think I'm a troll and have been lying about this for over a YEAR, you might need some help. People on here like to criticize me and call me a doormat, and what have you. What you're asking, and you playing detective is downright strange.
if you go back a page or two you will see, once again, where I recited six posts from you that clearly have you saying your baby is due in April.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Oh I agree and I love the savagery.
except that this is @randalljohnson, the person who TYPED the words, at least five times, misquoting his childs due date, 5 times.
Your scheme to try to frame me as a troll has run dry. I certainly know how old my child is and if human error isn't acceptable to you, I'm sorry.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I must be a real deadbeat to work more than 2x as much as most working peoppe work, and to support myself along with my 2 kids and my girlfriend in the house that I purchased.
If you don't like my posts you can freely not read my threads.
My "scheme?!
Projection at it’s best…
Yes, your scheme. That's what it seems like to me. We're going in circles when I've repeated my answer to you over and over again. So once again, if you don't believe me, please do not comment on my threads.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don't claim that I'm projecting. If you feel similarly to her, you don't have to comment on my posts either.
Of course you are going to call it a scheme. That's the only way you can think to deflect from simply answering the question.
Why in the world would I be posting on here about my relationships for nearly TWO YEARS if it wasn't true? Exactly what satisfaction would I get out of that? I feel like you're the troll, considering I've invited you numerous times to stop commenting on my posts, yet you keep belligerently calling me a troll.
The reason you post a made up story on here is for attention
That is asinine.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
