"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Up and Downs?

TheNewGuy

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Does anyone else feel like they're finally starting to get some DJ results one hour... then the next you feel like your old AFC self?

Arggggg, how do I stop feeling like this?!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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toddC

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Yes, all the time I feel liek I aquired some new skills but then realized taht I didn't lol...it sucks but give it time adn you will actually aquire the skills :)
 

Zaraza

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That is all in the process of learning and growing, for that one hour you feel like you are the man. Just wait, that feeling will stick around.

i go through ups and downs my self, but its a part of life, you will never realize the accomplishments in your life unless you have seen yourself fail.

thats the basic concept and idea.
 

adit

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You have to first find out why you're feeling like that.Usually when we're DJ newbs we're on a high when we get a phone number,for a couple of hours only.After a while when we find out that the girl is a little resistant,we're down again.

But most of the times,we feel down because we create webs in our minds and start thinking crap,even though we just got a couple of digits.A lot of times we feel like AFCs because of our imagination.Your imagination cheats you,a lot,especially when you're new.

Keep the game up and you wont feel like that anymore.
 

08aisaac

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After a while, your success won't be that big a deal. I was at school, got two numbers one after another. From fairly hot chicks. But that's not success for me, success is getting to the next step. Eventually, success will be finding a girl who isn't crazy.
Set your goals high.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Microphone Fiend

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focus on the positive highs you get. Defocus from the negative and it will matter less. Everyone has negative times but the successful people dont dwell on it
 
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