"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Up and Downs?

TheNewGuy

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Does anyone else feel like they're finally starting to get some DJ results one hour... then the next you feel like your old AFC self?

Arggggg, how do I stop feeling like this?!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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toddC

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Yes, all the time I feel liek I aquired some new skills but then realized taht I didn't lol...it sucks but give it time adn you will actually aquire the skills :)
 

Zaraza

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That is all in the process of learning and growing, for that one hour you feel like you are the man. Just wait, that feeling will stick around.

i go through ups and downs my self, but its a part of life, you will never realize the accomplishments in your life unless you have seen yourself fail.

thats the basic concept and idea.
 

adit

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You have to first find out why you're feeling like that.Usually when we're DJ newbs we're on a high when we get a phone number,for a couple of hours only.After a while when we find out that the girl is a little resistant,we're down again.

But most of the times,we feel down because we create webs in our minds and start thinking crap,even though we just got a couple of digits.A lot of times we feel like AFCs because of our imagination.Your imagination cheats you,a lot,especially when you're new.

Keep the game up and you wont feel like that anymore.
 

08aisaac

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After a while, your success won't be that big a deal. I was at school, got two numbers one after another. From fairly hot chicks. But that's not success for me, success is getting to the next step. Eventually, success will be finding a girl who isn't crazy.
Set your goals high.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Microphone Fiend

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focus on the positive highs you get. Defocus from the negative and it will matter less. Everyone has negative times but the successful people dont dwell on it
 
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