"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unprotected blowj0bs

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Blowj0bs aren't any fun with a condom and I'm wondering if I should just go for it. What are the risks of receiving a blowj0b without protection?

Online searches suggest that:
- no significant chance of HIV in this way
- Gonorrhea/Chlamydia/Syphilis suck but are curable
- HPV would be transmitted even with a condom (Note: there is a vaccine that protects against 9 bad strains - check it out)

So I'm left only worrying about getting genital HSV if the girl has oral HSV. HSV-1 is very common, so I'm focusing on avoiding HSV-2. Oral HSV-2 is uncommon but possible.

But I think I could get genital HSV from her oral HSV even without a blowj0b. Because if she has oral HSV, I could get oral HSV from kissing. Sometimes I use saliva to jerk off, so I could then self-infect to get genital HSV. In that case, it seems that unprotected blowj0bs do not pose any additional risks.

Is this logic sound? Or is the transmission likelihood significantly greater via blowj0b?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You can also get bacterial infection from the mouth. There are plenty of bacteria in the mouth which are not STDs, but can mess your dck up badly. So you can get that burning sensation for months after getting blown, and many tests later find out that you don't have anything, but still get the burning. Getting scked without condom is dangerous.
 

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You can also get bacterial infection from the mouth. There are plenty of bacteria in the mouth which are not STDs, but can mess your dck up badly. So you can get that burning sensation for months after getting blown, and many tests later find out that you don't have anything, but still get the burning. Getting scked without condom is dangerous.
Happened to me, it sucked came up clean I couldn't take the burning no more. Went on for many months had to take antibiotics and it subsided. Placebo? Happened to me again last year, but I didn't want to take antibiotics it subsided by itself this time. I run coconut oil all over my unit now. Women love the taste of it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Monolaurin. Take it every day. It protects against many bacteria as well as HSV. I was with a lady, regretfully for 5 years. We stopped having protected sex after six months in. She had HSV 1 & 2, but didn't disclose until the end. Ironically, when we were trying to conceive a child, she disclosed it on her medical form. I only found out about it when the nurse called me to inform me of some of her test results. We broke up not too long after that as I found out about other lies and misgivings (no cheating). I tested myself for years, no HSV 1 or 2. The GP told me that since I had so much monolaurin in my system, it is possible it protected me (we did everything). Who knows, but it's like 10 bucks a month and it works because it's a natural anti-viral and anti-bacterial supplement found in raw coconuts.

Never had a BJ with a condom. What's the point. I use this one from Amazon - Health from the Sun Monolaurin Capsules, 990 mg, 90 ct

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Never used a condom for a blowj0b and never got anything except pleasure.

You guys worry too much even to the extent of kissing.

Yeah I might get something but I'm really selective of the women I'm out with, i don't do high mileage women nor make it a habit with women past 30.

There's no guarantees in life gents.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Good point that I hadn't considered. Again I wonder if the risk is higher than simply kissing, getting the bacteria in your mouth, then self-infecting your d1ck.


What does the coconut oil do?
Ancedote but after getting bacterial infections from *******s I was thinking of ways of protecting myself with out using a condom for BJs. Using coconut oil for my skin in general to keep it from getting dry and flaky I remembered all the information I remembered when researching coconut oil, it's an anti bacterial and fungal oil so I was like ok let me try rubbing it on my unit and test out this theory. Well guess what? So far so good!
 

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Someone claim women love coconut oil..

But why stop at coconut oil ?

Try out some snake oil, girls will soon be giving ur unit a nickname....the "rattlesnake".

You'd be a king of sorts...

Head for the nearest snake oil salesman in ur local county for some truly exponential experience !
 

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Never used a condom for a blowj0b and never got anything except pleasure.

You guys worry too much even to the extent of kissing.

Yeah I might get something but I'm really selective of the women I'm out with, i don't do high mileage women nor make it a habit with women past 30.

There's no guarantees in life gents.
Yes, there is. Death and taxes. The cleanest lady can still have da herp. Be careful my friend. I am told it's a nasty little bugger. I pray I never experience it.
 

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Someone claim women love coconut oil..

But why stop at coconut oil ?

Try out some snake oil, girls will soon be giving ur unit a nickname....the "rattlesnake".

You'd be a king of sorts...

Head for the nearest snake oil salesman in ur local county for some truly exponential experience !
I do not think snake oil has antibacterial and antiviral components, but I could be wrong. :rofl::lol:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Speaking about da herp, apparently, California is herp central the last few days.


Spend the 10 bucks a month and get the monolaurin. It's better than nothing and has no side effects. Links above show the scientific effectiveness of it. Just trying to protect the brotherhood of SS.
 

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I've never had a bj with condom. 4ish years ago I fvcked a young new fresh prostitute and the condom split and I nut inside her. I only say young new fresh because her whole mannerisms were of a newbie who hadn't even been disenfranchised from selling her cvnt for money for months on end, was definitely a young trafficked Romanian, welcome to the UK.

I'm not gonna keep on banging on about the 26 diff chicks I banged last calendar year, Its 2019 bros!

I've smashed 7 different chicks this year (on target to beat last year) NONE, I repeat, NONE, have been with a condom.

I have no children and haven't had any STD/STI since early last year when I caught chlamydia.

You guys need to stop worrying and start living, if your frame isn't strong enough to convince a bird to abort thern this game aint for you and I don't advise my lifestyle. Wrap it up!

Nothing beats ther frantic pounding of nutting inside a warm wet vagina, i'm hooked!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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