"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Unprotected blowj0bs

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Blowj0bs aren't any fun with a condom and I'm wondering if I should just go for it. What are the risks of receiving a blowj0b without protection?

Online searches suggest that:
- no significant chance of HIV in this way
- Gonorrhea/Chlamydia/Syphilis suck but are curable
- HPV would be transmitted even with a condom (Note: there is a vaccine that protects against 9 bad strains - check it out)

So I'm left only worrying about getting genital HSV if the girl has oral HSV. HSV-1 is very common, so I'm focusing on avoiding HSV-2. Oral HSV-2 is uncommon but possible.

But I think I could get genital HSV from her oral HSV even without a blowj0b. Because if she has oral HSV, I could get oral HSV from kissing. Sometimes I use saliva to jerk off, so I could then self-infect to get genital HSV. In that case, it seems that unprotected blowj0bs do not pose any additional risks.

Is this logic sound? Or is the transmission likelihood significantly greater via blowj0b?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You can also get bacterial infection from the mouth. There are plenty of bacteria in the mouth which are not STDs, but can mess your dck up badly. So you can get that burning sensation for months after getting blown, and many tests later find out that you don't have anything, but still get the burning. Getting scked without condom is dangerous.
 

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You can also get bacterial infection from the mouth. There are plenty of bacteria in the mouth which are not STDs, but can mess your dck up badly. So you can get that burning sensation for months after getting blown, and many tests later find out that you don't have anything, but still get the burning. Getting scked without condom is dangerous.
Happened to me, it sucked came up clean I couldn't take the burning no more. Went on for many months had to take antibiotics and it subsided. Placebo? Happened to me again last year, but I didn't want to take antibiotics it subsided by itself this time. I run coconut oil all over my unit now. Women love the taste of it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Monolaurin. Take it every day. It protects against many bacteria as well as HSV. I was with a lady, regretfully for 5 years. We stopped having protected sex after six months in. She had HSV 1 & 2, but didn't disclose until the end. Ironically, when we were trying to conceive a child, she disclosed it on her medical form. I only found out about it when the nurse called me to inform me of some of her test results. We broke up not too long after that as I found out about other lies and misgivings (no cheating). I tested myself for years, no HSV 1 or 2. The GP told me that since I had so much monolaurin in my system, it is possible it protected me (we did everything). Who knows, but it's like 10 bucks a month and it works because it's a natural anti-viral and anti-bacterial supplement found in raw coconuts.

Never had a BJ with a condom. What's the point. I use this one from Amazon - Health from the Sun Monolaurin Capsules, 990 mg, 90 ct

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Never used a condom for a blowj0b and never got anything except pleasure.

You guys worry too much even to the extent of kissing.

Yeah I might get something but I'm really selective of the women I'm out with, i don't do high mileage women nor make it a habit with women past 30.

There's no guarantees in life gents.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good point that I hadn't considered. Again I wonder if the risk is higher than simply kissing, getting the bacteria in your mouth, then self-infecting your d1ck.


What does the coconut oil do?
Ancedote but after getting bacterial infections from *******s I was thinking of ways of protecting myself with out using a condom for BJs. Using coconut oil for my skin in general to keep it from getting dry and flaky I remembered all the information I remembered when researching coconut oil, it's an anti bacterial and fungal oil so I was like ok let me try rubbing it on my unit and test out this theory. Well guess what? So far so good!
 

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Someone claim women love coconut oil..

But why stop at coconut oil ?

Try out some snake oil, girls will soon be giving ur unit a nickname....the "rattlesnake".

You'd be a king of sorts...

Head for the nearest snake oil salesman in ur local county for some truly exponential experience !
 

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Never used a condom for a blowj0b and never got anything except pleasure.

You guys worry too much even to the extent of kissing.

Yeah I might get something but I'm really selective of the women I'm out with, i don't do high mileage women nor make it a habit with women past 30.

There's no guarantees in life gents.
Yes, there is. Death and taxes. The cleanest lady can still have da herp. Be careful my friend. I am told it's a nasty little bugger. I pray I never experience it.
 

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Someone claim women love coconut oil..

But why stop at coconut oil ?

Try out some snake oil, girls will soon be giving ur unit a nickname....the "rattlesnake".

You'd be a king of sorts...

Head for the nearest snake oil salesman in ur local county for some truly exponential experience !
I do not think snake oil has antibacterial and antiviral components, but I could be wrong. :rofl::lol:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Speaking about da herp, apparently, California is herp central the last few days.


Spend the 10 bucks a month and get the monolaurin. It's better than nothing and has no side effects. Links above show the scientific effectiveness of it. Just trying to protect the brotherhood of SS.
 

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I've never had a bj with condom. 4ish years ago I fvcked a young new fresh prostitute and the condom split and I nut inside her. I only say young new fresh because her whole mannerisms were of a newbie who hadn't even been disenfranchised from selling her cvnt for money for months on end, was definitely a young trafficked Romanian, welcome to the UK.

I'm not gonna keep on banging on about the 26 diff chicks I banged last calendar year, Its 2019 bros!

I've smashed 7 different chicks this year (on target to beat last year) NONE, I repeat, NONE, have been with a condom.

I have no children and haven't had any STD/STI since early last year when I caught chlamydia.

You guys need to stop worrying and start living, if your frame isn't strong enough to convince a bird to abort thern this game aint for you and I don't advise my lifestyle. Wrap it up!

Nothing beats ther frantic pounding of nutting inside a warm wet vagina, i'm hooked!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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