"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The way it's looking POF have wiped my account!
I entered my password & the response was "since
our website address change from plentyoffish.com
to pof.com we have deleted all passwords!!

When I enter my e-mail address to retrieve my
registration info they respond "that e-mail is not
in our database" Haha priceless!!

I googled it & lots of members are complaining about
the same situation. We cannot even register a new
account. Several usernames that I tried were apparently
already taken so I entered "vhgvvgvgvkh" as my username
"Username already exists" I smell Bullsh*t!

Going to use OKCupid until I can resolve this although I
don't think it will be as good as POF.

Apparently there are a lot of legit rule abiding members
who haven't done anything wrong & that ballbag Markus
has wiped there accounts without an explanation! No response
to there e-mails either.

I'm not paying for Match.com. Is there any decent dating websites
I could use bearing in mind i'm from UK??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bloody fools!

Do you have multiple accounts? Do you have a fake account (woman)? Where you being what could be perceived as pervy?

Do not despair. I find OkC to be actually better than PoF. They both have their pros and cons, but okc will keep you busy while you sort things out with PoF.
 

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I do have a fake profile as a woman, but plenty of fish wont
allow me to access that either, although I hardly ever used it.

I just failed to get into my account again & noticed they have just
changed the look of the site, hence it going from POF.com to
plentyoffish.com........wierd.

I wasn't being a perv on the site.

My first experience of OKcupid went well tonight. I hope it continues.
 

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Right. Did you try to log in, in recent weeks, or around the time it last worked for you, on more than one account?

My guess is that they have a way to figure when multiple accounts are created from the same IP adress, and able to shut both. They are aware men make fake women accounts, so they are catching up to them.
 

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I was pretty pissed when POF nuked my account. I had a good profile, username, and a couple of testimonials for social proof. All of it is gone. With the addition of the age difference restriction, I won't be back. I'm exclusively on OKc now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rainman4707

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I ain't used my fake account for about 8 month...like Desinova
said, they just nuked my profile.

I've had success on OKCupid over the last two days =)

Do the chicks on OKCupid get anywhere near the amount of
messages that the POF chicks get??
 

Rainman4707

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Well I used OKC for a few month & in my opinion it is nowhere near as good as POF.
There are literally thousands more women to talk to on POF.

I managed to get back on POF by creating another profile & changing username, personality details I.e height, star sign although every time I sign in the message
“this site does not have a vlid security certificate” appears. That’s something I’ll have to sort.
 

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My 'genuine' account remains untouched.

My fake ones always get nuked.

That's weird.
 

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Pay the money and use match. Higher quality chicks who aren't getting gamed. Lots of AFCs around. At least that's my experience.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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