"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Unprofessional POF

Rainman4707

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The way it's looking POF have wiped my account!
I entered my password & the response was "since
our website address change from plentyoffish.com
to pof.com we have deleted all passwords!!

When I enter my e-mail address to retrieve my
registration info they respond "that e-mail is not
in our database" Haha priceless!!

I googled it & lots of members are complaining about
the same situation. We cannot even register a new
account. Several usernames that I tried were apparently
already taken so I entered "vhgvvgvgvkh" as my username
"Username already exists" I smell Bullsh*t!

Going to use OKCupid until I can resolve this although I
don't think it will be as good as POF.

Apparently there are a lot of legit rule abiding members
who haven't done anything wrong & that ballbag Markus
has wiped there accounts without an explanation! No response
to there e-mails either.

I'm not paying for Match.com. Is there any decent dating websites
I could use bearing in mind i'm from UK??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bloody fools!

Do you have multiple accounts? Do you have a fake account (woman)? Where you being what could be perceived as pervy?

Do not despair. I find OkC to be actually better than PoF. They both have their pros and cons, but okc will keep you busy while you sort things out with PoF.
 

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I do have a fake profile as a woman, but plenty of fish wont
allow me to access that either, although I hardly ever used it.

I just failed to get into my account again & noticed they have just
changed the look of the site, hence it going from POF.com to
plentyoffish.com........wierd.

I wasn't being a perv on the site.

My first experience of OKcupid went well tonight. I hope it continues.
 

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Right. Did you try to log in, in recent weeks, or around the time it last worked for you, on more than one account?

My guess is that they have a way to figure when multiple accounts are created from the same IP adress, and able to shut both. They are aware men make fake women accounts, so they are catching up to them.
 

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I was pretty pissed when POF nuked my account. I had a good profile, username, and a couple of testimonials for social proof. All of it is gone. With the addition of the age difference restriction, I won't be back. I'm exclusively on OKc now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rainman4707

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I ain't used my fake account for about 8 month...like Desinova
said, they just nuked my profile.

I've had success on OKCupid over the last two days =)

Do the chicks on OKCupid get anywhere near the amount of
messages that the POF chicks get??
 

Rainman4707

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Well I used OKC for a few month & in my opinion it is nowhere near as good as POF.
There are literally thousands more women to talk to on POF.

I managed to get back on POF by creating another profile & changing username, personality details I.e height, star sign although every time I sign in the message
“this site does not have a vlid security certificate” appears. That’s something I’ll have to sort.
 

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My 'genuine' account remains untouched.

My fake ones always get nuked.

That's weird.
 

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Pay the money and use match. Higher quality chicks who aren't getting gamed. Lots of AFCs around. At least that's my experience.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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