"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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To give some laughs... Maybe it was already shared here. But in case you didnt watch it.

Sad but true.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've seen these before. Funny sh|t, and somewhat truthful!
 

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I never had those high standards. No wonder its been difficult to be friends with a woman like that. Those friendships always fade out.
Thats true.

I believe not all women have that mindset she told, like the same way there is women that doesnt agree with feminism.

Its all about raising awareness. When you have a better understanding of life, we dont become so much ignorant.

Basically... Tooking the red pill of life :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thats true.

I believe not all women have that mindset she told, like the same way there is women that doesnt agree with feminism.

Its all about raising awareness. When you have a better understanding of life, we dont become so much ignorant.

Basically... Tooking the red pill of life :p
Yes, you're right Blacksheep. You're my fellow bookreading friend.... I'm reading 'Crucial Conversations' book. Its so good!
I'm learning in this book, how to talk to people who are different than me that I have judged in the past.
I've been unfair and given up too easily on people with different opinions.
Its a caring book like No More Mr. Nice Guy book. Don't mean to derail your thread, sorry:)
 

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Yes, you're right Blacksheep. You're my fellow bookreading friend.... I'm reading 'Crucial Conversations' book. Its so good!
I'm learning in this book, how to talk to people who are different than me that I have judged in the past.
I've been unfair and given up too easily on people with different opinions.
Its a caring book like No More Mr. Nice Guy book. Don't mean to derail your thread, sorry:)
Thats a good point.
 
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