Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
To give some laughs... Maybe it was already shared here. But in case you didnt watch it.
Sad but true.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lol ! She told a lot of redpill truths of what we know about women!
AND THIS, WELL THIS...
She did!lol ! She told a lot of redpill truths of what we know about women!
She also explained in more detail what BackInTheGame has said a couple times about how just because she might seem to have options of men, she doesn't believe they're good options.She did!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hahaha yes!lol ! She told a lot of redpill truths of what we know about women!
I never had those high standards. No wonder its been difficult to be friends with a woman like that. Those friendships always fade out.Hahaha yes!
Thats true.I never had those high standards. No wonder its been difficult to be friends with a woman like that. Those friendships always fade out.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes, you're right Blacksheep. You're my fellow bookreading friend.... I'm reading 'Crucial Conversations' book. Its so good!Thats true.
I believe not all women have that mindset she told, like the same way there is women that doesnt agree with feminism.
Its all about raising awareness. When you have a better understanding of life, we dont become so much ignorant.
Basically... Tooking the red pill of life![]()
Thats a good point.Yes, you're right Blacksheep. You're my fellow bookreading friend.... I'm reading 'Crucial Conversations' book. Its so good!
I'm learning in this book, how to talk to people who are different than me that I have judged in the past.
I've been unfair and given up too easily on people with different opinions.
Its a caring book like No More Mr. Nice Guy book. Don't mean to derail your thread, sorry![]()