"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unique Compliments?

TheCharmingGuy

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Any ideas for compliments that go past the normal monotonous “your hair looks nice” crap we usually revert to? It would be good to have a collection of favorites, a “utility belt” of compliments of sorts. I mean, every girl above a 7 out there has heard “you’re pretty” about 100 times before you walked up to them.
Ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Serenity

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It would be good to have a collection of favorites, a “utility belt” of compliments of sorts.
It sure would, but I believe tailor-made compliments are far superior to any general compliment out there. It's not even difficult, just take note of a detail that stands out and comment positively about it. Most guys throw out general compliments, mostly about the overall looks and way too soon. So step one is to actually observe the woman in front of you, what details stand out? Forget general body shape, hair, ass etc. look at even the smallest things.
 

SargeMaximus

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The best compliment you can give a woman is on her personality.

"I like the way you carry yourself."
Can confirm. Supposedly, you can even use compliments to get the girl to be more promiscuous with you. The technique is to say things like “you seem like a girl who is open to adventure” or things like that. Since people rarely turn down compliments, she will likely agree. Then, later, if you hit resistance to sexual advances, you can say things like “I thought you were adventurous. I guess you’re just like all the other girls”.

ive never gotten the technique to work, but nearly got car sex with it a few years ago. I’m sure if you worked at it it could be done. I got it from the “GirlsChase” website. One of the articles. Good stuff in there. High level
 

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Any ideas for compliments that go past the normal monotonous “your hair looks nice” crap we usually revert to? It would be good to have a collection of favorites, a “utility belt” of compliments of sorts. I mean, every girl above a 7 out there has heard “you’re pretty” about 100 times before you walked up to them.
Ideas?
Compliment something you like about them that isn't physical. "I really like how passionate you are about xxx. So many people don't have anything they are passionate about. That's really cool."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oldmanofthesea

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"Damn girl, you look good from far, but far from good!"

Works every time.
 

Chamber36

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Can confirm. Supposedly, you can even use compliments to get the girl to be more promiscuous with you. The technique is to say things like “you seem like a girl who is open to adventure” or things like that. Since people rarely turn down compliments, she will likely agree. Then, later, if you hit resistance to sexual advances, you can say things like “I thought you were adventurous. I guess you’re just like all the other girls”.

ive never gotten the technique to work, but nearly got car sex with it a few years ago. I’m sure if you worked at it it could be done. I got it from the “GirlsChase” website. One of the articles. Good stuff in there. High level
I like the manipulative feel of this one. Make sure to use this on women that don't have good relationships with their fathers for a higher success rate.
 
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