She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It sure would, but I believe tailor-made compliments are far superior to any general compliment out there. It's not even difficult, just take note of a detail that stands out and comment positively about it. Most guys throw out general compliments, mostly about the overall looks and way too soon. So step one is to actually observe the woman in front of you, what details stand out? Forget general body shape, hair, ass etc. look at even the smallest things.
Can confirm. Supposedly, you can even use compliments to get the girl to be more promiscuous with you. The technique is to say things like “you seem like a girl who is open to adventure” or things like that. Since people rarely turn down compliments, she will likely agree. Then, later, if you hit resistance to sexual advances, you can say things like “I thought you were adventurous. I guess you’re just like all the other girls”.
Compliment something you like about them that isn't physical. "I really like how passionate you are about xxx. So many people don't have anything they are passionate about. That's really cool."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I like the manipulative feel of this one. Make sure to use this on women that don't have good relationships with their fathers for a higher success rate.
