"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Underage (by 4 weeks) girl added me on Facebook and now wants to meet.

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Moneytalks

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A girl (underage) added me on Facebook and MSN, now wants to meet
This girl is moving to London a few days before xmas from about 60 miles from here (no public transport to easily get me to where she is now, which sucks), and I still have my old Facebook location as London as I visit every few weeks to see my dad.

So she was going round on Facebook adding people because she doesn't know anyone down there (she's American which I guess makes her feel a bit of an outsider as well). She's constantly flirting with me and it's her that initiates sexual flirting on MSN!

I'm heading down to London after xmas to see my dad, and she wants to meet up. Normally I'd be well up for it, but she's 15 and doesn't turn 16 (legal) until the end of January. She suggested we go to her place as it's "more private" and because London was cold when she went in winter before (it really is cold there in January. I met my ex girlfriend there one January and it was freezing cold).

Thoughts?
Should I attempt to smash it? She said she's not a virgin so that makes me feel better about it.
Or should I steer clear until she's legal?

EDIT: I'm 18 by the way.

Moneytalks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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see her but dont do anything until the 4 weeks are done. WOW 16 is legal. if your only going to be there for a short time it might be good. we will see what everyone else says.
 
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Yeah, in London for 10 days this time and it'll be the last time until April, I should think.
 
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Seriously considering jailbait when there are millions of hot women running around reeks of desperation. In my book, no circumstances will ever justify risking 2 years in jail and destroying the rest of your life...

Just picture your business card 10 years from now: instead of Moneytalks, MBA/JD/MD/PhD/etc... it's gonna read "Moneytalks, sexual offender."

Imagin having to explain that to EVERY SINGLE woman you will meet for the next 40+ years.

All of a sudden that 15 y.o. poonani don't sound that good, does it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah. I'm just gonna have to tell her I'm not going to London thus can't meet her. She said her friend just commited suicide so I don't really want to make things worse...

Plus, my business card is more likely to say

Moneytalks, Cpt (RN), BEng, MEng :D
 
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Moneytalks

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I've been kind of knowing I shouldn't go for a 15 year old but just wanted confirmation. I just sent her an email telling her I don't think it's a good idea to carry on talking as we are and even worse that we meet in January.

Any of you fellas in London for New Year's eve? :D
 
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I'm not 100% sure, but any activity, conversations of a sexual nature with someone under the age of consent is classified as grooming isn't it? Steer clear if you fancy your freedom.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Drag it out for a month before doing anything with her. If you don't live in London and she's so far from there then that shouldn't be a problem at all.
 
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Yeah. She said (luckily) she agrees that we shouldn't meet in January and if we're still talking at all in February then go for it then. Though I think I'm gonna steer clear.
 
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realsmoothie said:
Any girl who just throws herself at people on Facebook is bad news.
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My thoughts exactly. This whole story just sounds weird.
 
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I don't know if they have a sex offender registry in London but I would steer clear from her until she's legal. Seeing that 16 is legal over there and you're just 18 then it shouldn't be too bad. I know in America people would look at you as a lame even though you're so close in age. Nobody wants to be that 18 year old that has his picture on the news because he messed with somebody a little younger than they'd prefer.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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