"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jhonny9546

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Just an example from modern era
http://instagr.am/p/C-6WJTCsSQI/


so unbalanced.
Which are the reason in your opinion?
For me, money.

Money brings so many opportunities for these women, so much to travel and enjoy life, why do they need to chose a real man when they actually can secure a rich guy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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he looks fine. not fat, taller than her. clean, CLEAN, good smile, he actually looks like a winner.... his shoulders look small... girl is average...
 

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I assume that you believe she's too hot for him? In my assessment, he's not ugly per se, and she's a solid 7. This is a fairly average pairing
This was my assessment as well. One can always be wrong, but based off of what I see, they appear to be happy and healthy. Probably good family ties? Stuff like that matters too.
 

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Hi Jhonny,
Yes,that Guy has done very well for himself...I see her as a solid 8,at face value he is struggling to reach the 50 percentile...I agree with your surmise,the Guy must have money and status.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think guys put more value on looks than women do. Women value what a guy can provide. I bet that guy has a few things going for him that make up for his lack of looks. She is a solid 8 face wise.
 

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@The Duke yes he can just provide the lifestyle, but I just say that this guy can actually be cheated on very easly.
Then, we don't know how much she's faking it. Women adore that a man could provide that lifestyle.
he looks fine
Maybe here in Italy we've different standards of what is fine
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@The Duke yes he can just provide the lifestyle, but I just say that this guy can actually be cheated on very easly.
Then, we don't know how much she's faking it. Women adore that a man could provide that lifestyle.

Maybe here in Italy we've different standards of what is fine
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The looks gap appears wider in this second photo than the first one. His chin looks very weak here whereas she looks better.
 

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Hi tiyuu,
" It doesn't matter nearly as much as you think. " Well yeah,but only up to a point,
a point I believe he goes past.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You guys need to get over your fixation on male looks.

It doesn't matter nearly as much as you think.
If we have this fixation on this quality of "appearance," it means you may have understood some things, that appearance is therefore not as important as other things, but you are still fixated on these other qualities.

What are they?
 

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If we have this fixation on this quality of "appearance," it means you may have understood some things, that appearance is therefore not as important as other things, but you are still fixated on these other qualities.

What are they?
I've noticed you have a lot of "this=therefore that" thinking.
 

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That actually makes a lot of sense and reaffirms most of my responses to you... Women's behavior doesn't follow logic or reason. If you understand a woman's emotions and reactions, it CAN start to make some sense. At least to the point of you being able to understand woen. But her behavior still will not make sense as far as "this vs that" or raw logic.
 

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Another point you fistfvcking incels might be missing is she has probably spent tons of money and time getting ready for this photoshoot.

Probably even starving herself for weeks to prepare for the "big day."

A girl in her wedding pictures is going to make herself look as absolutely as beautiful as she can.

I doubt she's nearly as hot as you guys think she is.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What are they?
 
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