"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jhonny9546

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Just an example from modern era
http://instagr.am/p/C-6WJTCsSQI/


so unbalanced.
Which are the reason in your opinion?
For me, money.

Money brings so many opportunities for these women, so much to travel and enjoy life, why do they need to chose a real man when they actually can secure a rich guy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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he looks fine. not fat, taller than her. clean, CLEAN, good smile, he actually looks like a winner.... his shoulders look small... girl is average...
 

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I assume that you believe she's too hot for him? In my assessment, he's not ugly per se, and she's a solid 7. This is a fairly average pairing
This was my assessment as well. One can always be wrong, but based off of what I see, they appear to be happy and healthy. Probably good family ties? Stuff like that matters too.
 

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Hi Jhonny,
Yes,that Guy has done very well for himself...I see her as a solid 8,at face value he is struggling to reach the 50 percentile...I agree with your surmise,the Guy must have money and status.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think guys put more value on looks than women do. Women value what a guy can provide. I bet that guy has a few things going for him that make up for his lack of looks. She is a solid 8 face wise.
 

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@The Duke yes he can just provide the lifestyle, but I just say that this guy can actually be cheated on very easly.
Then, we don't know how much she's faking it. Women adore that a man could provide that lifestyle.
he looks fine
Maybe here in Italy we've different standards of what is fine
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@The Duke yes he can just provide the lifestyle, but I just say that this guy can actually be cheated on very easly.
Then, we don't know how much she's faking it. Women adore that a man could provide that lifestyle.

Maybe here in Italy we've different standards of what is fine
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The looks gap appears wider in this second photo than the first one. His chin looks very weak here whereas she looks better.
 

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Hi tiyuu,
" It doesn't matter nearly as much as you think. " Well yeah,but only up to a point,
a point I believe he goes past.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You guys need to get over your fixation on male looks.

It doesn't matter nearly as much as you think.
If we have this fixation on this quality of "appearance," it means you may have understood some things, that appearance is therefore not as important as other things, but you are still fixated on these other qualities.

What are they?
 

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If we have this fixation on this quality of "appearance," it means you may have understood some things, that appearance is therefore not as important as other things, but you are still fixated on these other qualities.

What are they?
I've noticed you have a lot of "this=therefore that" thinking.
 

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That actually makes a lot of sense and reaffirms most of my responses to you... Women's behavior doesn't follow logic or reason. If you understand a woman's emotions and reactions, it CAN start to make some sense. At least to the point of you being able to understand woen. But her behavior still will not make sense as far as "this vs that" or raw logic.
 

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Another point you fistfvcking incels might be missing is she has probably spent tons of money and time getting ready for this photoshoot.

Probably even starving herself for weeks to prepare for the "big day."

A girl in her wedding pictures is going to make herself look as absolutely as beautiful as she can.

I doubt she's nearly as hot as you guys think she is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What are they?
 
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