"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jhonny9546

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Just an example from modern era
http://instagr.am/p/C-6WJTCsSQI/


so unbalanced.
Which are the reason in your opinion?
For me, money.

Money brings so many opportunities for these women, so much to travel and enjoy life, why do they need to chose a real man when they actually can secure a rich guy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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he looks fine. not fat, taller than her. clean, CLEAN, good smile, he actually looks like a winner.... his shoulders look small... girl is average...
 

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I assume that you believe she's too hot for him? In my assessment, he's not ugly per se, and she's a solid 7. This is a fairly average pairing
This was my assessment as well. One can always be wrong, but based off of what I see, they appear to be happy and healthy. Probably good family ties? Stuff like that matters too.
 

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Hi Jhonny,
Yes,that Guy has done very well for himself...I see her as a solid 8,at face value he is struggling to reach the 50 percentile...I agree with your surmise,the Guy must have money and status.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think guys put more value on looks than women do. Women value what a guy can provide. I bet that guy has a few things going for him that make up for his lack of looks. She is a solid 8 face wise.
 

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@The Duke yes he can just provide the lifestyle, but I just say that this guy can actually be cheated on very easly.
Then, we don't know how much she's faking it. Women adore that a man could provide that lifestyle.
he looks fine
Maybe here in Italy we've different standards of what is fine
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@The Duke yes he can just provide the lifestyle, but I just say that this guy can actually be cheated on very easly.
Then, we don't know how much she's faking it. Women adore that a man could provide that lifestyle.

Maybe here in Italy we've different standards of what is fine
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The looks gap appears wider in this second photo than the first one. His chin looks very weak here whereas she looks better.
 

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Hi tiyuu,
" It doesn't matter nearly as much as you think. " Well yeah,but only up to a point,
a point I believe he goes past.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You guys need to get over your fixation on male looks.

It doesn't matter nearly as much as you think.
If we have this fixation on this quality of "appearance," it means you may have understood some things, that appearance is therefore not as important as other things, but you are still fixated on these other qualities.

What are they?
 

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If we have this fixation on this quality of "appearance," it means you may have understood some things, that appearance is therefore not as important as other things, but you are still fixated on these other qualities.

What are they?
I've noticed you have a lot of "this=therefore that" thinking.
 

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That actually makes a lot of sense and reaffirms most of my responses to you... Women's behavior doesn't follow logic or reason. If you understand a woman's emotions and reactions, it CAN start to make some sense. At least to the point of you being able to understand woen. But her behavior still will not make sense as far as "this vs that" or raw logic.
 

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Another point you fistfvcking incels might be missing is she has probably spent tons of money and time getting ready for this photoshoot.

Probably even starving herself for weeks to prepare for the "big day."

A girl in her wedding pictures is going to make herself look as absolutely as beautiful as she can.

I doubt she's nearly as hot as you guys think she is.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What are they?
 
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