For the last two months I have been talking to this married woman who is now getting divorced. I know she likes me and I like her, but I also know that at this workplace of her's there are scores of guys that are after her. I don't have her number, I never gave her mine, I was respectful of the fact that she was married. I flirt with her and tell her how much she would have fun with me and I tease her about all the guys that are after her. But I have not been pursuing her aggresively like others. I was involved with a married woman in the past and would not like to do that again. But now that she is getting divorced, I feel like I would like to get to know her better. I just don't want to fight for her affection. I don't want to compete with other guys. I am 32 yrs old and I have other things to worry about. What is the best way to go about this. Should I have her come to me? Should I just stand back and let her date (rebound) with other guys? The married woman I was involved with in the past fuvked with my head (she said she was getting divorced, but never did) so I don't want to get fuvked over by this girl. But I also would love to hook up with her cause she is very attractive. What do I do since she is finalizing her divorce???? I feel like if some other guy takes her out and she has fun, I will be regreting it. Thanks for your help. How the hell do I proceed here. No experience with girls who are getting divorced....
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Ummmm.........so there's this married girl.........
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
amoka
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Never trust a woman who is married and tells you she is in the "process of getting divorced". Hoping/wishing to have an exclusive relationship with such a woman is a fruitless venture. FB/FwB should be the most you should have with women as such.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
think of her as a "living fleshlite" , nothing more.....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
“Those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it”
This is a bad idea for so many reasons, but the biggest reason is YOU'VE ALREADY BEEN DOWN THIS PATH and got d-icked and now like a blind lamb being lead to slaughter you want to do it again?!!
There are only a handful of men who can truly disassociate their emotions from their c-ock in a situation like this and you have already proven your incapable of this....
If you have trouble meeting women, figure out why. Once you figure this out, resolve these issues and you will have more options.
PIMP
This is a bad idea for so many reasons, but the biggest reason is YOU'VE ALREADY BEEN DOWN THIS PATH and got d-icked and now like a blind lamb being lead to slaughter you want to do it again?!!
There are only a handful of men who can truly disassociate their emotions from their c-ock in a situation like this and you have already proven your incapable of this....
If you have trouble meeting women, figure out why. Once you figure this out, resolve these issues and you will have more options.
PIMP