For the last two months I have been talking to this married woman who is now getting divorced. I know she likes me and I like her, but I also know that at this workplace of her's there are scores of guys that are after her. I don't have her number, I never gave her mine, I was respectful of the fact that she was married. I flirt with her and tell her how much she would have fun with me and I tease her about all the guys that are after her. But I have not been pursuing her aggresively like others. I was involved with a married woman in the past and would not like to do that again. But now that she is getting divorced, I feel like I would like to get to know her better. I just don't want to fight for her affection. I don't want to compete with other guys. I am 32 yrs old and I have other things to worry about. What is the best way to go about this. Should I have her come to me? Should I just stand back and let her date (rebound) with other guys? The married woman I was involved with in the past fuvked with my head (she said she was getting divorced, but never did) so I don't want to get fuvked over by this girl. But I also would love to hook up with her cause she is very attractive. What do I do since she is finalizing her divorce???? I feel like if some other guy takes her out and she has fun, I will be regreting it. Thanks for your help. How the hell do I proceed here. No experience with girls who are getting divorced....
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ummmm.........so there's this married girl.........
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
amoka
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Never trust a woman who is married and tells you she is in the "process of getting divorced". Hoping/wishing to have an exclusive relationship with such a woman is a fruitless venture. FB/FwB should be the most you should have with women as such.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
think of her as a "living fleshlite" , nothing more.....
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
“Those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it”
This is a bad idea for so many reasons, but the biggest reason is YOU'VE ALREADY BEEN DOWN THIS PATH and got d-icked and now like a blind lamb being lead to slaughter you want to do it again?!!
There are only a handful of men who can truly disassociate their emotions from their c-ock in a situation like this and you have already proven your incapable of this....
If you have trouble meeting women, figure out why. Once you figure this out, resolve these issues and you will have more options.
PIMP
This is a bad idea for so many reasons, but the biggest reason is YOU'VE ALREADY BEEN DOWN THIS PATH and got d-icked and now like a blind lamb being lead to slaughter you want to do it again?!!
There are only a handful of men who can truly disassociate their emotions from their c-ock in a situation like this and you have already proven your incapable of this....
If you have trouble meeting women, figure out why. Once you figure this out, resolve these issues and you will have more options.
PIMP