For the last two months I have been talking to this married woman who is now getting divorced. I know she likes me and I like her, but I also know that at this workplace of her's there are scores of guys that are after her. I don't have her number, I never gave her mine, I was respectful of the fact that she was married. I flirt with her and tell her how much she would have fun with me and I tease her about all the guys that are after her. But I have not been pursuing her aggresively like others. I was involved with a married woman in the past and would not like to do that again. But now that she is getting divorced, I feel like I would like to get to know her better. I just don't want to fight for her affection. I don't want to compete with other guys. I am 32 yrs old and I have other things to worry about. What is the best way to go about this. Should I have her come to me? Should I just stand back and let her date (rebound) with other guys? The married woman I was involved with in the past fuvked with my head (she said she was getting divorced, but never did) so I don't want to get fuvked over by this girl. But I also would love to hook up with her cause she is very attractive. What do I do since she is finalizing her divorce???? I feel like if some other guy takes her out and she has fun, I will be regreting it. Thanks for your help. How the hell do I proceed here. No experience with girls who are getting divorced....
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ummmm.........so there's this married girl.........
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
amoka
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Never trust a woman who is married and tells you she is in the "process of getting divorced". Hoping/wishing to have an exclusive relationship with such a woman is a fruitless venture. FB/FwB should be the most you should have with women as such.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
think of her as a "living fleshlite" , nothing more.....
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
“Those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it”
This is a bad idea for so many reasons, but the biggest reason is YOU'VE ALREADY BEEN DOWN THIS PATH and got d-icked and now like a blind lamb being lead to slaughter you want to do it again?!!
There are only a handful of men who can truly disassociate their emotions from their c-ock in a situation like this and you have already proven your incapable of this....
If you have trouble meeting women, figure out why. Once you figure this out, resolve these issues and you will have more options.
PIMP
This is a bad idea for so many reasons, but the biggest reason is YOU'VE ALREADY BEEN DOWN THIS PATH and got d-icked and now like a blind lamb being lead to slaughter you want to do it again?!!
There are only a handful of men who can truly disassociate their emotions from their c-ock in a situation like this and you have already proven your incapable of this....
If you have trouble meeting women, figure out why. Once you figure this out, resolve these issues and you will have more options.
PIMP