"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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UK to US: Living in America

Cash

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Sup, Somewhere between the next three to ten years, i'm looking to formulate plans to live in America. Yes sounds pretty simply in theory but of course, it isnt.

I know a little about work visa opitions, but not enough. So for anyone who has made or knows about any such transitions who can fill me in on what i need to know, what foundations need to be laid and how i should go about certain things, it would be much appreciated.

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You need a sponsor to get a green card. If you have very valuable skills, a large company could sponsor you. Usually a spouse is the sponsor; sometimes it works if you have close family in the US. That's pretty much it as far as legal options. If you have tradesman skills that are in high demand, you might be able to get paid under the table.
 

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That means if I get someone who says that is able to sponsor me I can get a green card, even coming from a third world country?

Or is that just for people from England?
 

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No, sorry if I was unclear. You need a sponsor that is approved by the US Gov't. Spouses pretty much get automatic approval as a sponsor. If you had elderly parents here who needed your care, or children who are US citizens, that would work also. With any blood relative in the US, you could at least apply and see what they say. And like I said, large corporations have enough money and lawyers to work the system so that they get the employees they need, especially in highly skilled jobs like computer programming and engineering.

Truthfully, our immigration system stinks. The US gov't treats people who could contribute to this country like 'damn foreigners.' Because of how difficult it is to be a legal immigrant, we have a large underground of illegal immigrants working for cash. They do fine, until they get picked up on any kind of criminal charge, even speeding, and then they are sent to INS detention prison and later deported. I have visited these detention centers, and they are full of sad stories, like people whose only crime is being brought here by their parents when they were small children.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Student Visa...nuff said
 

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You could always find some guy and make a deal with him, get a gay marriage and get a green card.
 

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Create Reality said:
You could always find some guy and make a deal with him, get a gay marriage and get a green card.
There's no women in America?

wow
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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That better not be no James Brown video. Infact i know it probably is, so i won't click it.

Zzzzz......
 
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