"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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UK to US: Living in America

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Sup, Somewhere between the next three to ten years, i'm looking to formulate plans to live in America. Yes sounds pretty simply in theory but of course, it isnt.

I know a little about work visa opitions, but not enough. So for anyone who has made or knows about any such transitions who can fill me in on what i need to know, what foundations need to be laid and how i should go about certain things, it would be much appreciated.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You need a sponsor to get a green card. If you have very valuable skills, a large company could sponsor you. Usually a spouse is the sponsor; sometimes it works if you have close family in the US. That's pretty much it as far as legal options. If you have tradesman skills that are in high demand, you might be able to get paid under the table.
 
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That means if I get someone who says that is able to sponsor me I can get a green card, even coming from a third world country?

Or is that just for people from England?
 
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No, sorry if I was unclear. You need a sponsor that is approved by the US Gov't. Spouses pretty much get automatic approval as a sponsor. If you had elderly parents here who needed your care, or children who are US citizens, that would work also. With any blood relative in the US, you could at least apply and see what they say. And like I said, large corporations have enough money and lawyers to work the system so that they get the employees they need, especially in highly skilled jobs like computer programming and engineering.

Truthfully, our immigration system stinks. The US gov't treats people who could contribute to this country like 'damn foreigners.' Because of how difficult it is to be a legal immigrant, we have a large underground of illegal immigrants working for cash. They do fine, until they get picked up on any kind of criminal charge, even speeding, and then they are sent to INS detention prison and later deported. I have visited these detention centers, and they are full of sad stories, like people whose only crime is being brought here by their parents when they were small children.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Student Visa...nuff said
 
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You could always find some guy and make a deal with him, get a gay marriage and get a green card.
 
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Create Reality said:
You could always find some guy and make a deal with him, get a gay marriage and get a green card.
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There's no women in America?

wow
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That better not be no James Brown video. Infact i know it probably is, so i won't click it.

Zzzzz......
 
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