"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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uh.. Condoms..?

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So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by kev me723
So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
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um do a search on the word condoms , youl find alot of helpful posts about which one to use and wich ones u waant to stay away from....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yeah so I guess I'll just stop at walgreens and pick some up or whatever.. I've heard that you don't want to keep them in your pocket, cuz they'll get bent and have a better chance of ripping.

So where do I keep them from the time I get to her house to the time I need to break one out?
 
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Number one rated are Inspirals. I haven't tried them.

Since its your guy's first times, get some extra strength ones because
A) she's worried about it breaking
B) you want to last long and make it memorable

So go with that.
 
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