"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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uh.. Condoms..?

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So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by kev me723
So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
um do a search on the word condoms , youl find alot of helpful posts about which one to use and wich ones u waant to stay away from....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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yeah so I guess I'll just stop at walgreens and pick some up or whatever.. I've heard that you don't want to keep them in your pocket, cuz they'll get bent and have a better chance of ripping.

So where do I keep them from the time I get to her house to the time I need to break one out?
 

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Number one rated are Inspirals. I haven't tried them.

Since its your guy's first times, get some extra strength ones because
A) she's worried about it breaking
B) you want to last long and make it memorable

So go with that.
 
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