"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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uh.. Condoms..?

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So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by kev me723
So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
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um do a search on the word condoms , youl find alot of helpful posts about which one to use and wich ones u waant to stay away from....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yeah so I guess I'll just stop at walgreens and pick some up or whatever.. I've heard that you don't want to keep them in your pocket, cuz they'll get bent and have a better chance of ripping.

So where do I keep them from the time I get to her house to the time I need to break one out?
 
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Number one rated are Inspirals. I haven't tried them.

Since its your guy's first times, get some extra strength ones because
A) she's worried about it breaking
B) you want to last long and make it memorable

So go with that.
 
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