"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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uh.. Condoms..?

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So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by kev me723
So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
um do a search on the word condoms , youl find alot of helpful posts about which one to use and wich ones u waant to stay away from....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah so I guess I'll just stop at walgreens and pick some up or whatever.. I've heard that you don't want to keep them in your pocket, cuz they'll get bent and have a better chance of ripping.

So where do I keep them from the time I get to her house to the time I need to break one out?
 

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Number one rated are Inspirals. I haven't tried them.

Since its your guy's first times, get some extra strength ones because
A) she's worried about it breaking
B) you want to last long and make it memorable

So go with that.
 
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