"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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uh.. Condoms..?

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So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by kev me723
So, my gf has the house to herself this weekend, and I'm staying over. We've fooled around quite a bit, but we haven't had sex yet. We have talked about condoms a bit. And I will obviously need some for this weekend, which we've both made quite clear. It's going down. But I've never bought them before or anything. I don't really know what I'm doing here haha.

I guess I am going to want condoms that are lubricated with spermicide right? I figure I'll get some trojans. So do I just go to some conveniece store and pick some out that look good and buy them? (that sounded pretty wierd) :rolleyes: Any advice on what to get?

I'm not a dumbass here, it's just a new experience for me. Any advice here would be great. Thanks kids
um do a search on the word condoms , youl find alot of helpful posts about which one to use and wich ones u waant to stay away from....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah so I guess I'll just stop at walgreens and pick some up or whatever.. I've heard that you don't want to keep them in your pocket, cuz they'll get bent and have a better chance of ripping.

So where do I keep them from the time I get to her house to the time I need to break one out?
 

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Number one rated are Inspirals. I haven't tried them.

Since its your guy's first times, get some extra strength ones because
A) she's worried about it breaking
B) you want to last long and make it memorable

So go with that.
 
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