She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your kidding me right? He is a TROLL.Originally posted by comote
I have to disagree, sure he is not really contributing to the knowledge but he has not been disrespectful to anyone here. Sure if anyone where to take his posts seriously they might take offense but he is funny and has put alot of thought into his posts.
We should be able to not take ourselves too seriously. I think that if you asked, most people either ignore his posts or look forward to his next one. Although maybe his posts do belong
in unusual techniques in seduction.
Or in "how to get assault charges" and "how to rob a bank."Originally posted by comote
Although maybe his posts do belong
in unusual techniques in seduction.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Haha!Originally posted by SoSuave.com
He's fairly entertaining at the moment. If he becomes annoying, or when he becomes annoying, he'll be given da boot. Thanks.
I love this guyOriginally posted by SoSuave.com
He's fairly entertaining at the moment. If he becomes annoying, or when he becomes annoying, he'll be given da boot. Thanks.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by kevbo
i'm with crazykid on this. he's suggested woman beating, bank robbing, kidnapping, and a little cross-dressing. if it's true that he's also seducethyself, then he's also suggested seducing children. anyone who can find this ammusing has got some serious issues to work out. of course, some of his stories seem a little too elaborate to be completely true, but he is suggesting that people begin acting like this, and encouraging those who already are.
Wrong forum, dude.Originally posted by whatsupwiddat
I love this guy