Masked_angel
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The only real legitimate one there is number 2 IMO. Guys keep forgetting girls dont judge guys like we judge chicks. Money helps, looks help, but we all know personality and inner game is 90% of it.Masked_angel said:Hey, was searching around on google and find an interesting article.
Do you guys have any more picture were you can find a ugly guy with a hot girl?
1.
If that guy wasnt in a swimming suit, he wouldnt be that bad. I dont have money, and Im good looking, but I got a huge white beergut, that for some reason super hot chicks think its hot.
2.
Who knows with this one. That chick looks like my ex GF, though.
3.
Thats Ross Jeffries! He started this whole pua 'game' thing, remember? Also, hisgirl aint that great there.
4.
I dont think that guy is all that bad either.
Best regars
Masked_Angel
PS: Never let your looks bring you down, but still always try to look your best![]()
So Christina Aguilera isn't hotProdigy746 said:Girl 3 , 4 is not that hot at all to me. I would say that they are average at best...
So Christina Aguilera married this dude for money? I don't think money matters so much in her life.C-quenced said:Lucy Pinder's boyfriend:
http://www.glamgalz.com/index.php/ho...th-her-bf.html
http://img174.imageshack.us/img174/5550/67156039zi9.jpg
Jesus those are ****ing huge!
But yeah to the original OP... A lot of these guys usually have lots of money. I say that looks do matter but it's not everything.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
True, but you have to get the girl's attention. If you can't get her attention or pique her interest, your game and personality are totally useless cuz she's not giving you a chance.Voice said:Ugly guys CAN get babes. If your game is tight and you're confident, than the sky's the limit. Looks may get a girls attention, but it's your personality that keeps them wanting more.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I disagree, the main thing a girl notices is how a guy carries himself. A girl may certainly consider you if they think you are good looking but that's not the deciding factor at all.Duffdog said:Can we put this whole thing to rest now? The ONLY thing that hot females care about when they first see a male is how he looks. It has nothing to do with science or opinion, its just common sense.
"carrying himself" is just another way of saying "looks", so you are agreeing with me anyways. It is not possible for ugly guys to "carry themselves well" unless...surprise...they suddenly become non-ugly.Voice said:I disagree, the main thing a girl notices is how a guy carries himself. A girl may certainly consider you if they think you are good looking but that's not the deciding factor at all.
The way you carry yourself has to do with your confidence/swagger/style/humor not how good looking you are.Duffdog said:"carrying himself" is just another way of saying "looks", so you are agreeing with me anyways. It is not possible for ugly guys to "carry themselves well" unless...surprise...they suddenly become non-ugly.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.