Masked_angel
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The only real legitimate one there is number 2 IMO. Guys keep forgetting girls dont judge guys like we judge chicks. Money helps, looks help, but we all know personality and inner game is 90% of it.Masked_angel said:Hey, was searching around on google and find an interesting article.
Do you guys have any more picture were you can find a ugly guy with a hot girl?
1.
If that guy wasnt in a swimming suit, he wouldnt be that bad. I dont have money, and Im good looking, but I got a huge white beergut, that for some reason super hot chicks think its hot.
2.
Who knows with this one. That chick looks like my ex GF, though.
3.
Thats Ross Jeffries! He started this whole pua 'game' thing, remember? Also, hisgirl aint that great there.
4.
I dont think that guy is all that bad either.
Best regars
Masked_Angel
PS: Never let your looks bring you down, but still always try to look your best![]()
So Christina Aguilera isn't hotProdigy746 said:Girl 3 , 4 is not that hot at all to me. I would say that they are average at best...
So Christina Aguilera married this dude for money? I don't think money matters so much in her life.C-quenced said:Lucy Pinder's boyfriend:
http://www.glamgalz.com/index.php/ho...th-her-bf.html
http://img174.imageshack.us/img174/5550/67156039zi9.jpg
Jesus those are ****ing huge!
But yeah to the original OP... A lot of these guys usually have lots of money. I say that looks do matter but it's not everything.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
True, but you have to get the girl's attention. If you can't get her attention or pique her interest, your game and personality are totally useless cuz she's not giving you a chance.Voice said:Ugly guys CAN get babes. If your game is tight and you're confident, than the sky's the limit. Looks may get a girls attention, but it's your personality that keeps them wanting more.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I disagree, the main thing a girl notices is how a guy carries himself. A girl may certainly consider you if they think you are good looking but that's not the deciding factor at all.Duffdog said:Can we put this whole thing to rest now? The ONLY thing that hot females care about when they first see a male is how he looks. It has nothing to do with science or opinion, its just common sense.
"carrying himself" is just another way of saying "looks", so you are agreeing with me anyways. It is not possible for ugly guys to "carry themselves well" unless...surprise...they suddenly become non-ugly.Voice said:I disagree, the main thing a girl notices is how a guy carries himself. A girl may certainly consider you if they think you are good looking but that's not the deciding factor at all.
The way you carry yourself has to do with your confidence/swagger/style/humor not how good looking you are.Duffdog said:"carrying himself" is just another way of saying "looks", so you are agreeing with me anyways. It is not possible for ugly guys to "carry themselves well" unless...surprise...they suddenly become non-ugly.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.