Masked_angel
Don Juan
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The only real legitimate one there is number 2 IMO. Guys keep forgetting girls dont judge guys like we judge chicks. Money helps, looks help, but we all know personality and inner game is 90% of it.Masked_angel said:Hey, was searching around on google and find an interesting article.
Do you guys have any more picture were you can find a ugly guy with a hot girl?
1.
If that guy wasnt in a swimming suit, he wouldnt be that bad. I dont have money, and Im good looking, but I got a huge white beergut, that for some reason super hot chicks think its hot.
2.
Who knows with this one. That chick looks like my ex GF, though.
3.
Thats Ross Jeffries! He started this whole pua 'game' thing, remember? Also, hisgirl aint that great there.
4.
I dont think that guy is all that bad either.
Best regars
Masked_Angel
PS: Never let your looks bring you down, but still always try to look your best![]()
So Christina Aguilera isn't hotProdigy746 said:Girl 3 , 4 is not that hot at all to me. I would say that they are average at best...
So Christina Aguilera married this dude for money? I don't think money matters so much in her life.C-quenced said:Lucy Pinder's boyfriend:
http://www.glamgalz.com/index.php/ho...th-her-bf.html
http://img174.imageshack.us/img174/5550/67156039zi9.jpg
Jesus those are ****ing huge!
But yeah to the original OP... A lot of these guys usually have lots of money. I say that looks do matter but it's not everything.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
True, but you have to get the girl's attention. If you can't get her attention or pique her interest, your game and personality are totally useless cuz she's not giving you a chance.Voice said:Ugly guys CAN get babes. If your game is tight and you're confident, than the sky's the limit. Looks may get a girls attention, but it's your personality that keeps them wanting more.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I disagree, the main thing a girl notices is how a guy carries himself. A girl may certainly consider you if they think you are good looking but that's not the deciding factor at all.Duffdog said:Can we put this whole thing to rest now? The ONLY thing that hot females care about when they first see a male is how he looks. It has nothing to do with science or opinion, its just common sense.
"carrying himself" is just another way of saying "looks", so you are agreeing with me anyways. It is not possible for ugly guys to "carry themselves well" unless...surprise...they suddenly become non-ugly.Voice said:I disagree, the main thing a girl notices is how a guy carries himself. A girl may certainly consider you if they think you are good looking but that's not the deciding factor at all.
The way you carry yourself has to do with your confidence/swagger/style/humor not how good looking you are.Duffdog said:"carrying himself" is just another way of saying "looks", so you are agreeing with me anyways. It is not possible for ugly guys to "carry themselves well" unless...surprise...they suddenly become non-ugly.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.