Masked_angel
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The only real legitimate one there is number 2 IMO. Guys keep forgetting girls dont judge guys like we judge chicks. Money helps, looks help, but we all know personality and inner game is 90% of it.Masked_angel said:Hey, was searching around on google and find an interesting article.
Do you guys have any more picture were you can find a ugly guy with a hot girl?
1.
If that guy wasnt in a swimming suit, he wouldnt be that bad. I dont have money, and Im good looking, but I got a huge white beergut, that for some reason super hot chicks think its hot.
2.
Who knows with this one. That chick looks like my ex GF, though.
3.
Thats Ross Jeffries! He started this whole pua 'game' thing, remember? Also, hisgirl aint that great there.
4.
I dont think that guy is all that bad either.
Best regars
Masked_Angel
PS: Never let your looks bring you down, but still always try to look your best![]()
So Christina Aguilera isn't hotProdigy746 said:Girl 3 , 4 is not that hot at all to me. I would say that they are average at best...
So Christina Aguilera married this dude for money? I don't think money matters so much in her life.C-quenced said:Lucy Pinder's boyfriend:
http://www.glamgalz.com/index.php/ho...th-her-bf.html
http://img174.imageshack.us/img174/5550/67156039zi9.jpg
Jesus those are ****ing huge!
But yeah to the original OP... A lot of these guys usually have lots of money. I say that looks do matter but it's not everything.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
True, but you have to get the girl's attention. If you can't get her attention or pique her interest, your game and personality are totally useless cuz she's not giving you a chance.Voice said:Ugly guys CAN get babes. If your game is tight and you're confident, than the sky's the limit. Looks may get a girls attention, but it's your personality that keeps them wanting more.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I disagree, the main thing a girl notices is how a guy carries himself. A girl may certainly consider you if they think you are good looking but that's not the deciding factor at all.Duffdog said:Can we put this whole thing to rest now? The ONLY thing that hot females care about when they first see a male is how he looks. It has nothing to do with science or opinion, its just common sense.
"carrying himself" is just another way of saying "looks", so you are agreeing with me anyways. It is not possible for ugly guys to "carry themselves well" unless...surprise...they suddenly become non-ugly.Voice said:I disagree, the main thing a girl notices is how a guy carries himself. A girl may certainly consider you if they think you are good looking but that's not the deciding factor at all.
The way you carry yourself has to do with your confidence/swagger/style/humor not how good looking you are.Duffdog said:"carrying himself" is just another way of saying "looks", so you are agreeing with me anyways. It is not possible for ugly guys to "carry themselves well" unless...surprise...they suddenly become non-ugly.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.